Prompting 10 _ Constants

When your mind is closed, wisdom is locked out, and you remain tied to ignorance.
You must investigate your feelings and desires and let them known to yourself.
In this way you will realistically follow your wishes and ideas.
Having attained a robust spirit and energy you will truly flourish and prosper.
You will not be counted among those who perish upon losing their WILL and persistence.
Here are SEVEN ways on how to ULTIMATELY UPGRADE your awareness on this matter!
Goal-Setting Theory outlines how different types of goals motivate us differently.
Distinguished Developers: Dr. Edwin Locke and Dr. Gay Lathan in late 1960’s.

UPON achieving a goal, what you get (the result) is not as important as what you really BECOME.
PART and parcel of achieving success in any particular endeavour, is the basic idea of goal setting.
GOALS which are clear, makes one to know what one is trying to achieve, and to measure results.
REASONABLY challenging goals, sparks interests and propels one to be persistent through problems.
AGREEMENT among team members (in setting a goal) makes them more likely to “buy into” a goal.
DIFFICULTY in goals are well adjusted, and people’s expectations clarified by listening to feedback.
ENSURE that work being done, does not become too overwhelming, when goals are highly complex.
Timely Therapy: - Obstacles are those frightful things you see, when you take your eyes off your goal.

TO HONESTLY EMBARK ON THE LONG VOYAGE towards your SELF-ACTUALIZATION, BEYONDISM invokes you to realise that, goals are not realistic, unless they take into account your capacities, limitations, and social environment. You should be warned that, if you feel defeated and unable to cope with certain situations, you may seek to avoid situations in which you could develop and perfect those skills that would enable you to perform effectively.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

BEING rational entails a realistic appraisal of yourself and your weaknesses; a devotion to truth and reality; a tolerant attitude toward people; and the ability to reach the goals set.
EACH one of us at some point in our lives have experienced moments of greater rationality. This often comes with what we shall call the maker’s mind-set. We have a project to get done.
AT this moment, the only emotion we can afford is excitement and energy. Other emotions simply make it impossible to concentrate. We become exceptionally practical.
REALLY concerned on getting results, we fully focus on the work — our mind calm, our ego not intruding. If people try to interrupt or infect us with emotions, we resent it.
IN particular, these moments — as fleeting as a few weeks or hours — reveal the rational self that is waiting to come out. It just requires some awareness and some practice.
NOW, your first step toward the rational is to look at your decisions, especially those that have been ineffective — can you see a pattern, an underlying insecurity that impels them?
GENERALLY, examine your strengths, what makes you different. This will help you decide upon goals that mesh with your long-term interests, and that are aligned with your skills.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Setting goals which synchronises with personal ability and situation.

FAR better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even when at times checkered by failure.
Core Choice #10: Avoid the rank of those poor spirits, who neither enjoy much nor suffer much.
Sure Score #10: Keep off those who lie in the gray twilight, that knows not victory nor defeat.
OPEN your eyes, look deeply within and keenly outside. Are you satisfied with the LIFE you are living?
Solid Stance #10: Jump at the sun; you might not land on it, but at least you have got off the ground.
Catalysing Consideration #10: Be an active player, or at the high table, when others are cheering idly.
REALISTIC goal setting is a powerful process; it manifests in creative imagination and independent will.
Mighty Mission #10: A realist seeks a little thing to do, sees it, does it and achieves it.
Vivid Vision #10: An idealist, with a very great thing to pursue, dies before knowing it.
MOTIVATE yourself to become better equipped to accomplish the things you are striving for year by year.
Gaining Ground #10: You should never wish to appear the best, but you must strive to be the best.
Capturing Clouds #10: Go for the moon, and if you do not get it, you will still be heading for a star.
UNTILL you climb every mountain, ford every stream, follow every rainbow, will you find your dream.
Lofty Leap #10: A practical person goes on adding one to one, and soon hits the hundredth.
Merry Momentum #10: A theorist aiming at a thousand, a million, or a billion misses a unit.
LEAVING a lasting legacy should be that you made SOMETHING better than it was when you got it.
Holy Hearken #10: Legacy is the practicality of translating vision into achievable, actionable doing.
Divine Distinction #10: Have an indomitable WILL in your heart; always hope to become ‘GREAT.’
AMBITION is seeing the world to be in constant change, wishing to control and influence its direction.
Prudent Planting #10: Ambition can creep as well as soar; it is the belief that there is a room at the top.
Hoped Harvest #10: Godliness is the perfect bliss and sole felicity; the sweet fruition of an earthly crown.

Therapeautic Takeaway #10
Cardinal Concept #10: As substantially scribed FOR YOU. ..............
Move BEYOND laziness characterising many YOUTHS in this hectic, arduous and absorbing LIFE.
Critical Canon #10: As candidly cracked BY YOU. ..............
To BECOME self-sufficient, by moving my energies towards putting my abilities into good use.
Renaissance Rehearsal #10: As purposively partook BY YOU. ..............
REFUSE indecision and parochialism, by critically aligning personal TARGETS and OBJECTIVES.

#9. To the extent I aspire to have a positive style of LIFE,
How should I align my targets and objectives?

Self-worth plummets when you let others make decisions for you.
Initially this may seem like the easy route; avoiding hard choices.
Ultimately though, it turns into the hard and regrettable route.
You will always find yourself boxed in what people decide for you.
If they disappear from your LIFE, you are left alone and indecisive.
That is a very earth-shattering place to end up in in your LIFE.
It happens if you are not prepared to make decisions for yourself.

#9. I, ___________________________, arousing my ability to overcome the challenge I face in LIFE, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, healthy self-love is about being my own best friend. Self-love is expressed not through preening myself all day and constantly announcing how great I am (those are signs of intense insecurity). I will treat myself with care, compassion, and respect. I will avoid overlaying how I think other people see me; how does it help me to capitulate to their idea of me? Only myself can give myself the esteem boost needed. I realise that self-love falters when I fall into the realm of addiction. Alcoholism, drug addiction, Internet addiction, and all similar addictions are a sign that I am hurting deeply but also that I do not want to face up to the opportunities presented by working through my pain.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, self-worth requires that I learn to listen to and rely upon my own feelings and not automatically respond to the feelings of other people. Once those around me establish that I will respond to what they want, they lack any incentive to not make use of my responsiveness, and that sets a bind for me that can be hard to break (but break it I must). When I trust my own feelings, I will realise that when demands are placed upon me, I do not feel great and I will want to respond with what works better for me, or for both of us, rather than what works better for everyone else except me.

PROPOSE: - I should listen to comments, expectations, and attitudes of other people and follow them without thorough investigation, if I have to win their love and acceptance.
OPPOSE: - This will eventually wear down my natural sense of self-worth. Self-worth is what enables me to believe that I am capable of doing my best with my talents, of contributing well in society, and that I deserve to lead a fulfilling life. Building it up again is therefore natural, essential, and healthy.
DISPOSE: - How I perceive myself, how I talk about myself, and how I represent myself eventually becomes the reality for me. If it happens that I am putting myself down, belittling my worth, and making light of my talents in the face of others, then I will come across as self-effacing, low in self-esteem, and almost a part of the wallpaper. This is not humility, it is self-denial and an attempt to lessen my presence. On the other hand, if I exaggerate my qualities, talents, and skills, I will come across as egotistical and arrogant but oddly enough, this is not about over-estimating my self-worth but about deceiving my through insecurity. There is a middle pathway and it is the one in which I recognise and celebrate the fact that I am a valuable person, equal to everyone else, and that my talents and thoughts are unique and worthy. Getting to this belief can be difficult if I have spent years underestimating my worth but it is always possible to change my thoughts and to learn to value myself.

Unlike a ring superimposed upon ring of failed belts which is weak on vitality and diversity, I should keep the enchanted cup of my LIFE filled and sparkling to the brim. Fuelled by vitality I will be able to echo the words of Mark Twain (1835 - 1910): “Let us so live that when we come to die, even the undertaker will be sorry.” “Pushing a new enterprise past all the barriers to success takes learnable skills...but it also takes a tenacious inner passion bordering on monomania. This combination is what I call leadership”, so taught U.S. business executive Kye Anderson. It is through being avid with myself, that I will be able to get ahead in my seemingly difficult profession. I will be able to rise above the timid crowd, and ascribe myself on the front pages of history; rather than cowardly allowing myself to be relegated to the footnotes of history. What I should understand is that, more than any other historical epoch in the evolution of mankind, I am in the throe of a Great epoch, the exuberance of an era of Great vitality, and the air is pregnant with a New Spirit. I have to move unafraid to meet to the hilt the demands of either work or friendship, which were construed by U.S stage actor Eleanor Robinson Belmont (1879-1979) as the ‘two of LIFE’s major assets’.

“Take the first chance that you get, because you may never get another one.” — American rapper Dwayne Michael Carter Jr. alias Lil Wayne (b. 1982)--->

“Take the first chance that you get, because you may never get another one.” — American rapper Dwayne Michael Carter Jr. alias Lil Wayne (b. 1982)--->

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