MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL STATES are like a volcano, which are bound to burst out eventually. Try to draw the line between self-control and expressing your pent-up energies in a socially acceptable manner. If you repress your feelings it is not soon than a floodgate will open with disastrous consequences. When this will happen, instead of leading you to seek professional aid, it will merely push you into yet another monstrous misjudgement.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

1. BELIEVE it or not, the Rebellious Impulse thrives on ignorance. The moment you are aware of how it operates and dominates you is the moment it loses its hold on you and can be tamed.
2. ENTRENCH yourself into wanting to catch that Rebellious Impulse in action. For this practical purpose, you must reflect on how you operate under great temptation or provocation.
3. ACCOMMONDATE yourself to feel, what particular weaknesses come out in such critical moments. Is it the desire to retreat or please, to bully or control, deep levels of mistrust?
4. REORIENT yourself into doing the opposite of what you would normally do. With such effort you will no longer be a slave to the rebellious motive and the compulsive behaviour it leads to.
5. IN being honest and sincere with yourself you will bring out the best in yourself. Consequently, you can now actively shape your very character and the fate that goes with it.
6. NOW and then, examine your rebellion to it roots. Any moment you feel this impulse, let it settle from within, and think about it. Was it triggered by something seemingly trivial or petty?
7. GAINFULLY look at this square in the eye. Dig below any trigger points to see its origin. Observe your actions from a neutral position, with a bit of detachment and even humour.

In most instances, serious rebellion typically begins at the outset of adolescence, and when it does many parents think this opposition is against them. They are usually mistaken. Rebellion is not against them; it is only acted out against them. In other words your ‘YOUTHFUL Rebellion’ is not precisely against your parents, but in your ‘temporary insanity’ you are unconsciously acting out against your parents. This realisation alone on how you are hurting your parents and perhaps jeopardising your future is self-redemptive.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Assumimg the responsibility and duty of obeying your superiors.

1. FELL the trunk of PSYCHIC tree: It will spring up again by the roots for they are numerous and deep.
   Core Choice #12: By the pike and the sword, strive to ACTIVATE your SELFHOOD.
   Sure Score #12: Never make yourself a bloody Creature, of old PSYCHIC PURGE.
2. ONLY cowards adopt decisions handed down to them; a BEYONDIST must learn to decide for oneself.
   Solid Stance #12: Authority compels people to obedience, but reason persuades them to it.
   Catalysing Consideration #12: Nature (and the society), to be commanded, must be obeyed.
3. REALITY does not entertain carbon copies; it wants everybody to be TRUTHFUL even if it hurts others.
   Mighty Mission #12: Do your duty and leave the rest to God.
   Vivid Vision #12: Go, for they call you, Shepherd, from the hill.
4. MATURITY feels well obeying than rebelling; obedience is the mother of success and the wife of safety.
   Gaining Ground #12: You have within yourself the possibility and responsibility of obeying your parent(s).
   Capturing Clouds #12: If you find yourself rebelling against this urge, you must question your motives.
5. USE the prayer of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane before his arrest (Mark 14:36), when perturbed.
   Lofty Leap #12: Abba, Father, all things are possible unto thee; take away this cup from me.
   Merry Momentum #12: (Jesus continued), nevertheless not what I will, but what thou wilt.
6. LEADERSHIP materials to work on commanding people well, are in obeying what superiors ask of you.
   Holy Hearken #12: Subordinates obey not because the supervisor has the power to compel them to.
   Divine Distinction #12: Staffs follow reasonable instructions, related to productive work behaviour.
7. ALWAYS by spiritually throwing yourself on God, and soulfully seeking shall you eventually find Him.
   Prudent Planting #12: Discipline is a token of selfhood; a natural badge to distinguish you from others.
   Hoped Harvest #12: Obey your parent(s): You shall be a peculiar treasure unto them above everything.

#12. In as much as I desire to stop HURTING my parent(s),
Which are the core RULES to rule my INNER WORLD?

LIFE gets easier when you genuinely feel an inner SELF-TRUST.
Not cocky self-absorption or a ‘fake-it-till-you-make-it attitude’.
It is true comfort in your skin, and radiant openness with others.
At bottom, this means a deep understanding of your uniqueness.
You are AMAZING! It is time for you to own this gift and control it.
You are made for celebrating! And laughter! And soul level clarity!
And feeling damn good about your abilities and your SELFHOOD!

#12. I, ___________________________, designing all the necessary rules for myself, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, I am blessed with strengths. When explored and nurtured, they can be used to achieve inner confidence and activate ‘the Amazing Me’. Expression of my strengths makes me feel like my real self. It invigorates me! It excites me! It makes me crave more ways to use those strengths! And concentrating on my strengths is so much more fun than trying to force myself to become better at things I usually suck at, right? A strength may come naturally to me, but I do need to make the choice to use it. Even if I am naturally creative, or brave, or diligent, or playful, or fair, I must still craft my LIFE so I get the chance to express my signature strengths on a daily basis. I can absolutely find ways to use my strengths in class, school, work, and play when I am conscious of them. It is just a matter of clarity and activation.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, personal power is not about using force or manipulation to overcome, but rather, it is about realising my natural state of goodness. It is about trusting my worth. It is about harnessing my energy and confidence to make a positive difference in the world by simply being myself. The incredible thing? I am already immensely powerful. Perhaps I do not feel it yet. Perhaps my natural radiance is muddied up with years of bottling my own opinions, of trying not to offend, of working desperately to shore up my “weaknesses” instead of expanding my innate talents. When I believe I am good at a core level, it becomes more comfortable to function in this crazy, stressful world. I will know how to treat others. I will know how to treat myself. I will know how to weed out the bad and return to the pure basics of the “good LIFE”.