YOU SHOULD AGGRESSIVELY PURSUE your interests in a virtually unlimited form of self-assertion. But you should be very wary of stepping upon the interests of other people. BEYONDISM paradigm in this regard is: Be on your toes or even let others put you on your toes, but step not on their toes, or let them step on yours. Avoid impulsivity at all costs. Lack of self-control is the reserve of simpletons and leads to weakness.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

1. BET with BEYONDISM that the underlying factor behind the striving which your parents do not comprehend is AMBITION. Do not plead with them so much. Time will prove you right.
2. EMBRACE this as indispensable part of you, revisit your earliest ambitions, are they in line with the present one? Adapt them to your current reality, and make them as specific as possible.
3. ASSUMING you want to create a movement to address a particular cause. This specific ambition might be grand enough, but you can visualise quite clearly the end point and how to get there.
4. REALLY seeing what you want, the likelier you are to realise it. Your ambitions may involve challenges, but if they should be so far above your capacity, you only set yourself up for failure.
5. INDEED, once your current goal is realised, however long that takes, you now turn to a new ambition, a new project, feeling tremendous, solid satisfaction that you attained the last one.
6. NEVER looking or turning back, you do not stop in this upward process, building momentum. The key is the level of desire and aggressive energy you put into each ambitious project.
7. GAINING more forceful acceleration as you move forward, you do not infect yourself with doubts and guilt; you are in harmony with your nature, and you will be amply rewarded for that.

BEYONDISM absolutely affirms without fear of contradiction that, ‘YOUTHFUL Rebellion’ plays an important part in your growth as a YOUTH; it is the poster characteristic of your youthful years.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Chanelling your struggles in manner that is not detrimental to anybody.

1. FUNDAMENTALLY, heaven and earth just calls and sets before you life and death, blessing and cursing.
   Core Choice #14: Choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live fully.
   Sure Score #14: For many people are called, but few choose the calling.
2. ORIGIN of action — its efficient, not its final cause — is choice; desire and reason with a view to an end.
   Solid Stance #14: No one can serve two masters: for either one will hate the one, and love the other.
   Catalysing Consideration #14: Diligence is the agency by which the power of choice is fully obtained.
3. REAL condition of all human ethics can be summed up in two sentences: We ought to. But we do not.
   Mighty Mission #14: When you have your WILL, you will definitely have your way.
   Vivid Vision #14: In your rules the Chief Clause ought to be: I will do what I WILL.
4. MUCH of your gains shall be in the possibility of choice, the recognition of many possible ways of LIFE.
   Gaining Ground #14: For any course of action to be successful it is you who decides, not heaven.
   Capturing Clouds #14: It is better to go in freedom to your grave, than Rule kingdoms as a Slave.
5. UNDER no circumstance can good compensate bad in you: LIFE’s business being just the terrible choice.
   Lofty Leap #14: The basic guideline in developing core talents and interests lies squarely in you.
   Merry Momentum #14: The rose that all are praising, should not necessarily be the rose for you.
6. LIFE is the art of choosing freely and choosing what is attainable and adequate: Ignore everything else.
   Holy Hearken #14: Your intellect is naturally predisposed to choose perfection of LIFE, or of the work.
   Divine Distinction #14: To accept that there is no alternative on any issue, is the road to be doomed.
7. ACTUAL struggle against death; the unconditional, self-willed determination to LIFE, is BEYONDISM.
   Prudent Planting #14: This is motive power behind the lives and activities of all outstanding individuals.
   Hoped Harvest #14: Be the individual that YOU ARE, with all your faults, you are still whom YOU ARE.

#14. In as much as I desire to be well UNDERSTOOD by my parent(s),
How should I boost my spirit and keep my INNER RESOLVE high?

Do not pay attention to people who think that they are better than you.
Start tasks which you are confident in completing. Do not give up!
Surround yourself only with people who care about your feelings.
People who do not care about you at all, will not help your confidence.
Choose your own path; be truthful to your own ideals and convictions.
Do not let other people to tell you how to feel or what to strive for.
Smile at yourself in the mirror every day and TRY to smile at others.

#14. I, ___________________________, awakening my inherent ability to keep my INNER RESOLVE HIGH, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, not all decisions will turn out to be the right ones. I will keep in mind that, right or wrong, I am the one who makes the decisions and that no one ever changed his or her LIFE by making safe decisions. So I will never despair that I made one wrong choice, but revel in the knowledge that I have gotten stronger by daring to make a choice, to take a chance.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, I should not feel like I am not good enough because I have not been treated the way that I should be. Overcoming that is a strength in itself and something to admire. I have admirable qualities. I should dig deep and find something admirable, then amplify that quality, feeling it grow each day. I will really work on building up one quality at a time and soon my spirit will highly boosted. I will be careful not to act as though I am better than others. True self confidence will lead me down the path of modesty and respect for others. Self-esteem is something that will fill me and help light my way through life. I will be aware of masks that some people wear to hide feelings of insecurity and weakness: pomp, conceit, uncompromising attitude and disrespect for the self-esteem of others. People who try to hide behind these are trying to fool someone, so I will make sure this is not me.