P#16._A kind of a LIE you have told or feel disposed to.--->

BENEFICIENT BOOST #16: As Truly Triggered FOR YOU.
LEARN about the long-term negative consequences of e.g., Lying due to Forced Confessions.
YE SHALL raise your levels of SELF-EFFICACY in order to shun all LIES and DECEPTIONS.

“When the grass is cut, the snakes will show.”- American rapper Shawn Corey Carter a.k.a. Jay-Z (b. 1969)--->

“When the grass is cut, the snakes will show.”- American rapper Shawn Corey Carter a.k.a. Jay-Z (b. 1969)--->

THERAPEAUTIC TRINITY #16: As Ardently Affirmed BY YOU.
Diligent Deal #16:
DARE TO shun and overide all temptations at telling lies or deceving my parent(s).
Concrete Clarity #16:
KEEP ON being a great student of human nature and a superior reader of people.
Indomitable Imperative #16:
To HONE my skill of observation of people and be adept at interpreting behaviour.

    1.
  • ULTIMATE
    UPGRADE
  • 2.
  • BASIC
    BEARING
  • 3.
  • FORMIBABLE
    FORMULA
  • 4.
  • RULING
    REALIZATION
  • 5.
  • NOURISHING
    NARRATIVE
  • 6.
  • DELIBERATE
    DIALOGUE
  • 7.
  • SOVEREIGN
    SCRIPT
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It is an open secret that you have encountered liars now and then.
You may not have a lie detector, but is it possible to spot and expose them?
You will see this in speech errors, hesitations, fidgeting and displacement activity.
Other vital notable cues are repetitions, blinking, higher vocal pitch and pupil dilation.
For the experienced ones, where they are controlling their faces their legs give them away.
Here are SEVEN ways on how to ULTIMATELY UPGRADE your awareness on this matter!
Four-factor Model exposes the four things happening when people lie.
Distinguished Developers: Zuckerman, DePaulo and Rosenthal (1981), Zuckerman and Driver (1985).

  1. UNDERLYING mechanisms at work when we tell lies: arousal, behaviour control, emotion and thinking.
  2. PROFUSE lying causes anxiety and AROUSAL, either due to DISSONANCE or the fear of getting caught.
  3. GNAWINGLY, we try to CONTROL body language that might give us away, but LEAKAGE often occurs.
  4. REAL EMOTIONS change when lying as in duping delight (or the secret pleasure at perceived success).
  5. APPARENT GUILT may also appear in micro-motions in facial muscles which betray hidden EMOTIONS.
  6. DECADENTLY, to lie, we have to THINK a lot HARDER, in order to ensure coherence in our arguments.
  7. EFFETELY we speak with more PAUSES, or use more generalities to avoid getting trapped in specifics.
    Timely Therapy: - Do not lie, especially in front of someone (like the police) who are trained to spot lies.

LIFE IS THE GIFT OF NATURE; but beautiful living is the gift of wisdom. For your part, you should rather excel in the knowledge of what is good, than in the extent of raw impulses. It is only upon the epic, noble and magnificent project of conquering your inner chaos, that you will mount the throne, and ride the world.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

  1. BASICALLY, young children learn fast about what works and what does not work. Lacking the physical ability to get what they want, they discover natural guile and soon start lying.
  2. EARLY deceits are obvious, such as when a child holds something behind their back as they say they do not have it. Before long, however, they learn to hide it somewhere else.
  3. ACTUALLY they put on a surprised and insulted look when accused of wrong-doing. When children are punished for lying, rather than doing it less, they often just get better at it.
  4. RATHER than directly lie, use of justification is a method of accepting that something has happened, but showing that it was the best alternative course of action in the situation.
  5. IN case the blame is difficult to dodge, some will quickly make up stories that justify how they have behaved. These can quickly become elaborated to cover the challenges they get.
  6. NEVER contemplating to steal computers, taking a pen home seems quite reasonable. Small lies and little deceits are seen as being acceptable, which in many social circles they are.
  7. GIVEN the chance to deceive without being detected, most people will, in fact, deceive in small ways. This is reflected in the common debate about stealing office supplies from the workplace.

Cheating and lying are forms of deception. To lie is to say what is not true for the purpose of deceiving. It involves making false statements or falsifying the truth. Lying is always wrong and it opens door to other vices such as cheating and stealing. Cheating is more serious form of lying, which involves accepted rules in other ways rather than speaking untruths. For example, an act of fraud, copying during examination or forging certificates. YOUTHS may cheat in examination if the work is too difficult for their ability or if they have not prepared for the tests.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Esteeming truthfulness and honesty not to please anyone but nourish your soul.

  1. FOR suddenly it should dawn to you that virtue in the Creator, is not the same as virtue in the creature.
    Core Choice #16: For the Creator, if He should love His creature, would be loving only a part of Himself.
    Sure Score #16: But essentially, the creature, praising the Creator, so praises an infinity BEYOND oneself.
  2. ONLY honesty is like the greeny fig tree; your body is your garden, to which your WILL is the gardener.
    Solid Stance #16: Nothing can harm a good person, either in LIFE or after death.
    Catalysing Consideration #16: You should cultivate honesty, or rot for having lost it.
  3. RENDER yourself to agreeing to a thing in principle, and arouse the intention of carrying it out in practice.
    Mighty Mission #16: Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile.
    Vivid Vision #16: Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it.
  4. MOSTLY the truest perhaps do not look the most beautiful; the most beautiful perhaps are not the truest.
    Gaining Ground #16: For sweetest things turn sourest by their deeds.
    Capturing Clouds #16: Things sweet to taste prove in digestion sour.
  5. UNCOVER hypocrites! For they are like whited TOMBS: beautiful at the outward, but within full of ROT.
    Lofty Leap #16: One who resolves to deal with none, but honest people, must be the leader of all.
    Merry Momentum #16: Dishonesty, misrepresenting reality, to further exploitative interest is evil.
  6. LIVING by truthfulness is hard, but not impossible; it requires a constant watchfulness, constant guard.
    Holy Hearken #16: Mortals become immortal, only by honesty.
    Divine Distinction #16: LOVE SINCERITY, she alone is FREE.
  7. ARE you legal, decent, honest, truthful? Then count yourself qualified to populate the African continent.
    Prudent Planting #16: Loss of honesty, will surely lead you to endless ruin.
    Hoped Harvest #16: Your reputation, is no less brittle, than it is beautiful.
Therapeautic Takeaway #16
Cardinal Concept #16: As substantially scribed FOR YOU. ..............

Move BEYOND reservations as to what you could have done or avoided, but you did or did not.
Critical Canon #16: As candidly cracked BY YOU. ..............
To BECOME one who fully utilises the present moment, and is not apprehensive about future.
Renaissance Rehearsal #16: As purposively partook BY YOU, ..............
REFUSE any kind of ineffectiveness and inefficiency, by raising basic levels of SELF-EFFICACY.

#16. To the extent I desire to shun all LIES and DECEPTIONS,
In which way should I raise my levels of SELF-EFFICACY?

Self-efficacy is basically the magic wand that really guarantees a great LIFE.
Your beliefs about your efficacy affect the choices you make in significant ways.
It affects your levels of motivation and perseverance in the face of obstacles.
Success requires persistence, so low self-efficacy becomes a self-limiting process.
In order to succeed, you need a sense of self-efficacy, which offers a sense of focus.
Strung together with resilience you will overcome the inevitable iniquities of LIFE.
You should plan and allow yourself to expect better results and achieve your goals.

#16. I, ___________________________, adopting my conviction to raise my levels of SELF-EFFICACY, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, to continue improving my self-efficacy and to know whether something is working, I will do things myself. If it fails to produce the result, I will go on trying something else and react positively to the circumstance. I will ask myself what will happen if I go a little further and try one more little thing and take the next step. If it works, I have probably got enough information. My successful performance will raise my self-efficacy, motivate and deepen my belief about my competency and effectiveness and inspire me to identify myself, instead of others, with success. I will study the experts and do what they do. I can determine their effectiveness by looking at their results. By observing them I will develop my awareness, increase my choices and get a clear possible picture of the outcome that I desire. Nothing is impossible if someone has done it. Then I will copy what they are doing by taking the same actions. Successful people help me develop a positive mindset of expecting things to work out.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, Mind storming ideas, setting goals and writing down my action steps are the preparation that I need to take to qualify myself to produce results and have control. The time spent on this activity will never become wasted energy. Everything counts. I will plan and prepare my days, weeks, months and years ahead because that is where I am going to spend my LIFE. Planning and preparation bring a state of mind in which nothing seems impossible. How true are the words, “He who fails to plan, plans to fail!” I may have been tricked into believing that I am ineffective, incompetent and that many things are impossible. My beliefs, identity and the language I use on myself have brought about my predicaments. I will re-train myself to change my LIFE story by using my brain and my mind to re-frame and learn new tricks. Only me has the power over the pictures I want to see, or the words I want to hear and the feelings I want to experience internally. Whatever happens inside will reveal on the outside. So for now, I will concentrate on changing within, the magic outside will follow.

PROPOSE: - My current responses do not give me the life that I want, and that is why I find myself engaging in lies and deceptions to fill this inner void.
OPPOSE: -
I have understood that I am only afraid of what I do not know. I need to understand myself and why I do what I do and identify my strengths and weaknesses.

DISPOSE: -
I need to learn things outside my present knowledge, skills and experiences. I do not know how and what to do because I have not questioned myself enough and have not acquired enough knowledge and experiences. Learning how to effectively use my brain, to focus and to control my thoughts are skills that I can acquire if I put in the effort and determination. I will increase my knowledge banks! I must set out to challenge my existing negative assumptions about my capability, ability and competence. I need to toughen my mentality to fight my fear and look at my actual potential. My effectiveness will increase if I create a different perception of my present reality. I will change the way I think about myself and my circumstances by understanding and applying a few fundamental principles of success. It does not take a hundred things to change my thinking, just a few will create the difference.

Trying to get around everything by pretending to know everything – to be what I am not, trying to prove I am as good as the next person – indicates characteristic reaction to frustration, to bitterness, lack of opportunity and insecurity. The truths I am living by are what will inform, to a very large extent, the LIFE I will lead. I will try to the best abilities to be open and realistic to myself by recognising my strengths, as well as prudently work on my limitations.



































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