A FUNDAMENTAL OBJECTIVE OF BEYONDISM is to arm you with strategies which will aid you to deal with distress and cope with crisis. We hereby seek to ‘help you to help yourself’ to keep off from casual SEX by altering maladaptive behaviour through providing you with skills, awareness, and knowledge which will enable you to confront your social inadequacies and resolve personal conflicts.

In their bid to rid to themselves of the intolerable pressure, many YOUTHS are decadently drowning their PSYCHE in the river of gambling, drugs and SEX. On your side, continually cleanse your PSYCHE in the ever fresh well of BEYONDISM and you will always be soaring higher, above and BEYOND any restraint. Getting an insight into the origins and development of emotional difficulties, will lead to an increased capacity to take control over your feeling and actions.

The theme of SEX is both intriguing and disturbing. Despite its potential for immense physical pleasure and the crucial role that it plays in propagating the species, SEX nevertheless is sometimes a source of anxiety, shame, and disgust for humans, and is always subject to cultural norms and social regulations. We argue that SEX is threatening because it makes us actually aware of our sheer physical and animal nature. Although Sigmund Freud suggested that human beings are “threatened by their creativeliness”, BEYONDISM suggests that this motivation is rooted in a more basic human need to deny mortality. SEX is vital for procreation (like all base animals, if you need a child, go for it), but it is NOT a sustainable source of HAPPINESS (only to be found in creative tasks).

SEVEN therapeautic tokens to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

1. BOREDOM during free time is one of the reasons why YOUTHS gets involved in SEX. Lacking parental attention, they seek it out in others which most likely leads to sexual intercourse.
2. ESTEEMING oneself highly enables one to have no need to seek attention outside of their normal friendships and relationships. One therefore, has easier time avoiding sexual intercourse.
3. ABSENCE of good and sound morals is an important reason why YOUTHS have sexual intercourse. Strong family values and ties include having parents involved in YOUTHS lives.
4. REALLY, they are under a lot of peer pressure to have sex (they think “everyone” is doing it), they are misinformed about sex and they simply see and hear about SEX on TV and music.
5. INDEED this feeds the YOUTHS ever growing desires to experience SEX themselves in some way or another. This is because most of them do not have parents consistently in their LIFE.
6. NOW facing the situation of a lack of role models, they have no one to look up to in their LIFE. If they consider a celebrity a role model, they are most likely in the racy videos they watch.
7. GENERALLY YOUTHS admire and look up to music and TV stars to the point that they want to be just like them. It just seems right to want to be like the people admired on TV and in music.

A lot of YOUTH Comrades are sexually active; this makes them feel like they need to have casual SEX too and to be “just like them.” TVs broadcast sexual activity, they encourage a sexual lifestyle and make it seem like it is okay to be sexual. Young adults do not always know how to relate to one another without acting sexual towards one another. This leads to awkward situations when left alone where they feel like SEX is what is to be expected.

Promiscuity and out-of-wedlock pregnancy have gained a de facto legitimacy. A child born to a mother 32 years or younger has less than a 50% chance of being born in wedlock to his or her biological mom and dad. It has become a norm of our society. Of the most sobering experiences that witnessed in the last few years is meeting kids having kids, sometimes hearing my ‘mom had me when she was age of 13 (or 14) years’. These are not stupid or bad kids, but there is a momentum in their lives: the tendency to live out the script that has been modelled for them. That script has a profound generational impact.

“Promiscuity” is a tough word, because it is hard to lump someone’s sexual behaviour into any sort of category solely on their number of sexual partners. It is agreed that SEX is often presented by the mainstream media as solely a fun activity with no consequences involved, which is not the case. BEYONDISM, does not believe that traditional wedlock is necessary to raise a child successfully, or that there is any equation stating what family makeup is necessary - but it is certainly a proponent of planned, supported childbearing and raising! While teens can and do make effective and loving parents, most studies have shown that ideally, it is healthiest for a teen to postpone having a child until later on in LIFE.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Accessing all available avenues for finding meaning in LIFE.

1. FULLY functional LIFE entails recognising three categorical values, also known as the Meaning TRINITY.
   Core Choice #23: These are the avenues through which meaning in LIFE may be discovered.
   Sure Score #23: These are: the creative value, the experiential value, and the attitudinal value.
2. ON the creative value we find all those acts that give something to LIFE that would not otherwise exist.
   Solid Stance #23: The creative value may be actualised through productive work.
   Catalysing Consideration #23: Or through hobbies, and through doing good deeds.
3. RESTING on the experiential value are all experiences of truth and beauty discovered in the world.
   Mighty Mission #23: These encompasses all loving encounters and acceptance with other human beings.
   Vivid Vision #23: Experiential value may be actualised through nature, art, dance, music, and literature.
4. MOVING to the attitudinal value we find it as being superior to the creative and experiential values.
   Gaining Ground #23: This key value is actualised through the stance taken toward unavoidable suffering.
   Capturing Clouds #23: If one chooses bravery over cowardice, the attitudinal value has been actualised.
5. USUALLY, a meaningful LIFE is one in which these values are actualised to the greatest possible degree.
   Lofty Leap #23: Find LIFE’s meaning in non-material objects and you are on the right track.
   Merry Momentum #23: Look for LIFE’s meaning in material things and you are doomed.
6. LIFE lived in its entirety, is like striking a chord in an organ which then produces sound of a great Amen.
   Holy Hearken #23: Set your LIFE upon a cast, and you will stand the hazard of the die.
   Divine Distinction #23: Many things happen between the cup and the lip, so be alert.
7. ALL the best laid schemes by human beings lead them not into grief and pain but towards promising joy.
   Prudent Planting #23: Times go by turns, and chances change by course.
   Hoped Harvest #23: Things change from foul to fair, from worse to better.

#23. To the extent I aspire to mitigate the MENTAL state adversely affecting me,
Which should be the modalities of rising upon the levers of SELF-DISCIPLINE?

Discipline means behaving according to what you have decided is best.
Self-discipline is acting boldly regardless of how you feel in the moment.
Always work on an idea after the initial rush of enthusiasm has faded away.
Go to the gym when all you want to do is lie on the couch and watch TV.
Wake early to work on yourself, when the impulse is to continue sleeping.
Say “no” when tempted to break your diet, to break a well thought resolution.
If you struggle with self-discipline, the good news is that it can be developed.

#23. I, ___________________________, proud of my ability to rise upon the levers of SELF-DISCIPLINE, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, discipline is freedom. For many people discipline is a dirty word that is equated with the absence of freedom. In fact the opposite is true. As Stephen R. Covey once wrote: “The undisciplined are slaves to moods, appetites and passions”. In the longer term, the undisciplined lack the freedom that comes with possessing particular skills and abilities – e.g. to play a musical instrument or speak a foreign language. Self-discipline involves acting according to what I think instead of how I feel in the moment. Often it involves sacrificing the pleasure and thrill of the moment for what matters most in life.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, it is not enough to simply write out my goals and values. I must make an internal commitment to them. If I struggle with commitment, I will start by making a conscious decision to follow through on what I say I am going to do – both when I said I would do it and how I said I would do it. I will put in place a system to track these commitments. As the saying goes: “What gets measured gets improved,” I have realised that self-discipline is often extremely difficult. Moods and appetites can be powerful forces to go against. Therefore, self-discipline is highly dependent on courage. I will not pretend something is easy for me to do when it is in fact very difficult and, or painful. Instead, I will find the courage to face this pain and difficulty. As I begin to accumulate small private victories, my self-confidence will grow and the courage that underpins self-discipline will come more naturally. I will indulge in Internal Coaching. When I find myself being tested, I will talk to myself, encourage myself and reassure myself. After all, it is self-talk that has the ability to remind me of my goals, call up courage, reinforce my commitment and keep me conscious of the task at hand. When I find my discipline being tested, I will always recall this quote: “The price of discipline is always less than the pain of regret”. I will burn this quote into my memory, and recall in whenever I find myself being tested. It will eventually change my LIFE.