P#36._Cherished pattern of realizing PERSONAL GOALS.--->

BENEFICIENT BOOST #36: As Truly Triggered FOR YOU.
LEARN about improving the way you set your AIMS and adapt to your targets.
YE SHALL propagate your SELF-REGULATION by fine tuning your PERSONAL GOALS.

“Settling is the worst feeling in the world.”- Barbadian singer, actress, and businesswoman Robyn Rihanna Fenty (b. 1988)--->

“Settling is the worst feeling in the world.”- Barbadian singer, actress, and businesswoman Robyn Rihanna Fenty (b. 1988)--->

THERAPEAUTIC TRINITY #36: As Ardently Affirmed BY YOU.
Diligent Deal #36:
DARE TO feel I am under the compulsion of rising up and rekindling the fire of my LIFE.
Concrete Clarity #36:
KEEP ON unearthing my limitations and picking my LIFE objectives carefully.
Indomitable Imperative #36:
TO KNOW that, what brings me success is not what I have, but how I use it.

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    FORMULA
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    REALIZATION
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Have you ever encountered an individual who saw him or herself as dominant?
What actions did this person extremely exhibit to reinforce this image of dominance?
Was he or she blustering like the former Italian Dictator Benito Mussolini (1883 - 1945)?
Or perhaps strutted like the former Egyptian president Gamal Abdel Nasser (1918 - 1970)?
Here are SEVEN ways on how to ULTIMATELY UPGRADE your awareness on this matter!
Self-Verification Theory explains how we seek confirmation of our self-view, even if it is negative.
Distinguished Developer: American social and personality psychologist William B. Swann (b. 1952).

  1. USUAL Self-Verification theory asserts that people want to be known and fully understood by others.
  2. PURELY, this is according to their firmly held beliefs and feelings about themselves, that is self-VIEWS.
  3. GRANTED, this propels the drive for self-evaluation, along with self-enhancement and self-assessment.
  4. REALISTICALLY, chronic self-concepts and self-esteem play important roles in understanding the world.
  5. A sense of coherence, and guiding action, motivates people to maintain them through self-verification.
  6. DULY, such strivings provide stability to our life, making experiences more orderly and comprehensible.
  7. ENGAGING in a variety of activities that are designed to obtain self-verifying information is our nature.
    Timely Therapy: - Viewing self as insightful one seeks evidence that others recognise one’s insightfulness.

THIS IS THE FOURTH PIECE OF PERSONALITY PUZZLE. LIFE is basically a school of ‘Hard-Knocks’. To graduate with honours in this ‘University of LIFE’ as a function of SELF-ACTUALISATION, is your supreme assignment. In diagnosing your ‘Personality Predisposition’ BEYONDISM focuses on where you broadly fit in regard to Type A/B personality theory. The theory’s originators, Dr. Meyer Friedman and Dr. Ray Rosenman, in the 1950s, created a diagnostic survey to identify type A because it was the treatment group: Type A’s faced greater risk of cardiac death, while being type B simply meant that you were not type A. However, it is advisable to construe Type A/B, as behavioural tendencies, rather than defining and rigid personality types.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Looking for TRUTH from no other founts other than your PSYCHE.

  1. FORTUNATELLY it is not for nothing that we pursue LIFE; it always pays our hopes with NEW things.
    Core Choice #36: If you feel you have positive latent ideas, prepare to unleash them NOW.
    Sure Score #36: How beauteous mankind is! O brave NEW world that has such people in it!
  2. ONLY BEYONDISM teaches this: “Boldness makes rattling good history; defeatism is poor reading.”
    Solid Stance #36: Go on, my dear Africans, whip your PSYCHE to the utmost; open all your valves.
    Catalysing Consideration #36: You will soon get under such momentum you cannot stop if you would.
  3. ROBUSTLY ride and hunt for NEW frontiers to conquer; your PSYCHE will go wild with excitement.
    Mighty Mission #36: Abscond any sort of bodily tastelessness, mental blindness and spiritual deafness.
    Vivid Vision #36: A sense of power is the most invigorating stimulant a human being can really enjoy.
  4. MOTIVATED intelligence will make you powerful; excitement will propel you to keep on improving.
    Gaining Ground #36: This combination is terrible; you will always hope it continually lasts.
    Capturing Clouds #36: It is critical to improve intelligibility while retaining the excitement.
  5. UPSURGE of new ideas as catalysed by BEYONDISM implies a fabulous increase of vital possibilities.
    Lofty Leap #36: It is quite the contrary of what we hear so often about the decadence of Africa.
    Merry Momentum #36: To inspire hopeful passion in yourself and in others must be your destiny.
  6. LET BEYONDISM be measured by its ability and strength to rival the attractions of all narcotic drugs.
    Holy Hearken #36: The magnetism of TV, the excitements of sex, or the ecstasies of destruction.
    Divine Distinction #36: The intellectual excitement of BEYONDISM will be really its driving force.
  7. AS a BLESSED BEYONDIST you will start experiencing strange fits of passion never known hitherto.
    Prudent Planting #36: Fully aware of your bodily health as the fount of all ideas, you will move unhindered.
    Hoped Harvest #36: The intensity of an idea depends upon the somatic excitation with which it is connected.
Therapeautic Takeaway #36
Cardinal Concept #36: As substantially scribed FOR YOU. ..............

Move BEYOND what is simply the mere possibility of your ‘being’ to making it a solid actuality.
Critical Canon #36: As candidly cracked BY YOU. ..............
To BECOME fully aware of the medium which my struggle towards authenticity takes shape.
Renaissance Rehearsal #36: As purposively partook BY YOU. ..............
REFUSE distortion and dumbness, by continually upgrading mode of realizing personal GOALS.

#36. To the extent I aspire to utilise fully my TYPE of intimate reaction,
How should I upgrade my mode of realizing personal GOALS?

Self-monitoring and self-evaluation are necessary skills for self-regulated behaviour.
Self-reinforcement is a key component and a vital strategy of self-management.
Each of these three skills contributes to the establishment of fulfilling standards.
Self-monitoring is useful in tracking how often behaviour occurs or does not.
Self-evaluation is the process of comparing your behaviour to a standard or goal.
Self-reinforcement is a way to pat yourself on the back for progress towards the goal.
You can self-reinforce immediately following a self-evaluation that is successful!

#36. I, ___________________________, channeling my efforts towards SELF-REGULATION, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, self-evaluation consists of comparing a measure of some behaviour or event with a goal or standard for the behaviour or event. For example, I might record the amount of calories I eat each day and compare this to a standard or goal for calorie intake. There are several things to consider when establishing a goal or standard against which I want to compare myself. I will focus on increasing a preferred activity or learning a new skill. For example, my goal may be to reduce the time spent watching TV. I will consider trying to increase an alternate, preferred activity such as reading. Especially when I am on a school holiday, I may find it easier to pick up a good book than to turn on the TV! I will try a graduated performance measure. This would start out with a small interval and gradually work up to the ideal interval based on performance. For example I may want to practice for an hour every day but find that it is better to start with 15 minutes then build up to an hour over time. This will give me lots of opportunities to be good at what I will be trying to do! If I will be trying to increase the amount of exercise I get each day, I might want to make sure my routine will work on the days that I get to the gym and has alternative activities for days when I cannot get to the gym. Sometimes I will just have to try it and then adjust my standard or goal as I need to! The first time is not always perfect.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, self-reinforcement is an invaluable link between the response and the outcome. The more often I can pick out a target behaviour and consistently give myself reinforcement for that behaviour, the more likely it will occur in the future. There are numerous ways to provide myself with reinforcement. A few things include: Eating a favourite food or snack item, Participating in a preferred recreational activity like bowling or going to the movies, Spending time with a friend, and Telling or showing someone my success. Unfortunately, not all self-reinforcers are ideal in all situations. I have realised that a self-reinforcer should be: Small and easily deliverable. It would not be simple or healthy to provide myself with a steak meal as a frequent reinforcer. Edible reinforcers work better when I am hungry so they may not be good at all during or after a meal! There are also potential health problems if I use food as a frequent self-reinforcement. INDIVIDUALISED! The things that I do to make myself feel good may not be the same things my friend would like to do. I will think about what I could do anywhere or anytime to reinforce myself. It is best to have self-reinforcement immediately follow self-evaluation. I will make sure I do not forget this step!

PROPOSE: - To monitor and identify a behaviour or event and recording how often, how long, and/or when that behaviour or event occurs is a monumental task which cannot be achieved by a mortal.
OPPOSE: -
Self-monitoring can be an extremely useful tool for finding out how often I do certain things. I may engage in an activity much more or less frequently than I realise. Self-monitoring will help me get a much more accurate understanding of when and how often a behaviour or event occurs. Two steps that comprise self-monitoring consist of identifying the behaviour or event and recording the behaviour or event. I should define the behaviour I want to measure so that I will always know when it did or did not occur. I should use observable behaviours or events in my definition of the behaviour or event so that I and others can tell when the behaviour or event happens. I should focus on a simple definition that clarifies when the behaviour starts and stops. I should test my definition and see if others agree with me on when the behaviour occurs or does not occur. If I cannot consistently determine whether the behaviour or event is occurring, you can: Simplify how I define the behaviour or event, make up some examples of when the behaviour or event occurs or does not occur to clarify the definition, or practice identifying the behaviour with others. Once I have defined the behaviour or event that I want to monitor, I will need to decide how I want to monitor it.

DISPOSE: -
Self-recording can be extremely complicated or lots of fun. Self-recording consists of recording when a behaviour occurs or does not occur. The recording can be made on a checklist or graph. I understand that a simple recording method is probably best. I should make it simple and easy to maintain. The way I record a behaviour or event will in part be determined by the definition of the behaviour. I should use simple techniques when possible. I may be less likely to accurately record something if it is complicated. For example, using a watch to time how long something happens and then recording the time would be more cumbersome that counting the frequency of a specific behaviour. I should incorporate simple recording procedures into my daily routine that work well with the routine rather than conflict with it. If I know before I start that I cannot take the time to measure the behaviour when you are at work, do not. I should RECORD the behaviour (e.g., paper, blackboard, frequency counter) so that I do not forget what happened. I should keep a small piece of paper in my purse or pocket to record things across the day. I should not forget to carry a pencil or pen as well.

It is my deep conviction that, I will only reach the summit of my wildest dreams in LIFE and stand on top of my world, if I keep my head when everyone around me is losing theirs and blaming it on me. If I can trust myself when all people doubt me, but make allowance for their doubting too. If I can wait and not be tired of waiting, or being lied about and not deal in lies. Or being hated, and not giving way to hating and yet do not look good, nor talk too wise. If I can dream and not make thoughts my aim, if I can meet with triumph and disaster and treat them just the same, if I can bear to hear the truth I have spoken twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools; then I am a winner. If I can talk with crowds and keep my virtue, or walk with kings or queens – nor lose the common touch. If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt me, if all human beings count with me, but none too much. If I can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds worth of distance run, mine is the earth and everything that is in it. With this kind of mentality, then, no obstacle will be too hard to manage.



































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