TO SEPARATE THE CHAFF FROM WHEAT in the many seeds of your personality, BEYONDISM uses the sieve of BIG FIVE model. The Big Five Model of personality was originally initiated by Ernest Tupes and Raymond Christal in 1961, advanced by J.M. Digman in 1990, and extended to the highest level of organisation by Lewis Goldberg.

REALISM and pragmatism is what makes us humans so powerful. In KNOWING THYSELF, you are simply becoming more human. This means accepting your limitations and working with what you have, rather than fantasising about godlike powers you can never attain. The greatest protection you can have against this is to maintain a realistic attitude. You know what subjects and activities you are naturally attracted to. You cannot be skilled at everything. You need to play to your strengths and not imagine you can be great at whatever you put your mind to.

You must have a thorough understanding of your energy levels, of how far you can reasonably push yourself, and of how this changes with age. And you must have a solid grasp on your social position — your allies, the people with whom you have the greatest rapport, the natural audience for your work. You cannot please everyone. This self-awareness has a physical component to it that you must be sensitive to.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

1. BEING in activities that mesh with your natural inclinations, you feel ease in the effort, learn faster, have more energy and you can withstand the tedium that comes with good learning.
2. ESSENTIALLY, when you take on too much, more than you can physically or PSYCHICALLY handle, you feel not only exhausted but also irritable and nervous. You are prone to headaches.
3. AWARENESS of your pronounced TENDENCIES sharpens your antennae. When you have success in LIFE, you will naturally feel a touch of fear, as if the good fortune could disappear.
4. RISING too high and feeling too superior precipitate some dangers. A sense of anxiety tells you to come back down to earth. Your body signals to you when you work against your strengths.
5. IN knowing yourself, you accept your limits. You are not an angel but a flawed human. You accept the fact that you cannot control the people around you and no strategy is ever foolproof.
6. NO wonder, Human Nature is too unpredictable. With this self-knowledge and acceptance of limits you will have a sense of proportion. You will search for greatness in your work.
7. GRAVITY mechanism is what this self-knowledge will serve as, pulling you back down and directing you toward the actions and decisions that will best serve your particular nature.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Unleashing your personality as a key element to make the world livable.

1. FEAR of responsibility and the escape from freedom, amounts to denial; refusal to face unpleasant facts.
   Core Choice #37: It pervasively leads to a provisional attitude on LIFE (living as if there is no tomorrow).
   Sure Score #37: Also to a fatalistic attitude on LIFE (acting as if one has no control over one’s destiny).
2. ONEROUS ‘existential vacuum’ then leads to the nihilism that is responsible for the anti-social actions.
   Solid Stance #37: This is often characterised by collectivist thinking (a denial of one’s own personhood).
   Catalysing Consideration #37: Also fanaticism (a denial of the personhood of those who think differently).
3. REVERSING ‘existential vacuum’ entails developing of a sound philosophy of LIFE (BEYONDISM).
   Mighty Mission #37: Such a philosophy demonstrates that LIFE has meaning for each and every person.
   Vivid Vision #37: This is surely accomplished through teaching that, potentials in LIFE are not indifferent.
4. MEANING in LIFE can be discovered through the human choice to actualise one value over another.
   Gaining Ground #37: You must make your own choice concerning the mass of present potentials.
   Capturing Clouds #37: By actualising various aspects of your LIFE you will be rescued for eternity.
5. USUAL tension between what ONE IS and what one may yet BECOME is necessary to mental health.
   Lofty Leap #37: The principle of homeostasis - the tendency of an organism to maintain balance, is false.
   Merry Momentum #37: Ultimate freedom from desires, wants, and anxieties is impossible in human nature.
6. LIVE insightfully; cognition is, after all, only human cognition, bound up with human intellectual forms.
   Holy Hearken #37: Cognition is unfit to reach the very nature of things.
   Divine Distinction #37: Cognition cannot reach the things in themselves.
7. ALL insight is not directed toward creating a NEW WORLD, but to understand its essential functioning.
   Prudent Planting #37: The world is always ‘already there’ before your reflection begins.
   Hoped Harvest #37: Reflection is knowing your position in the grand scheme of things..

#37. In as much as I want to synchronise my pronounced TENDENCIES,
How should I capture the necessary disposition of being HAPPY?

What is Happiness? Happiness is a highly subjective state of generalised well-being.
Happiness does not necessarily mean freedom from suffering, or negative emotions.
It indicates overall satisfaction and viewing life as good, meaningful, and fulfilling.
It is feeling satisfied with the direction of your LIFE, using setbacks as levers for growth.
It is holding oneself in high regard and forgiving of your mistakes and shortcomings.
Having an optimistic disposition towards issues and tending to see the glass as half full.
Taking responsibility for your satisfaction; never allow manipulation by outside forces.

#37. I, ___________________________, crushing my pedestrian view in regard to HAPPINESS, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, I will have goals and pursue them with purpose, which is one of the key ways to increase happiness. I will immerse myself in challenging experiences and inhabit a state of “flow.” Channeling mental attention into challenging activities can be more rewarding than leisure activities such as watching TV or playing video and computer games. I will maintain healthy relationships. I have understood that human beings are wired for connection. Having strong interpersonal relationships with positive people is an important factor for maintaining emotional and mental well-being. Also, recognising when certain relationships are having a negative impact on my well-being, and taking steps to correct it, can greatly improve feelings of happiness.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, I will live in the present moment. Spending too much time ruminating on the past or focusing on the future can contribute to anxiety and general dissatisfaction. I will strive to focus on the here and now in order to savour the richness of human experience. I will practice gratitude. Being grateful, even for small things, can help to significantly boost my mood. I will practice gratitude by repeating thankfulness mantras, keeping a gratitude journal, or expressing gratitude toward others on a daily basis. I will get support when I need it. If I am feeling overwhelmed, melancholy, excessively stressed, or bogged down by other difficult emotions on an ongoing basis, it may be necessary to reach out for help.