ONLY WHEN YOU FIND IN BEYONDISM, a mirror that you espied the world and LIFE, that you will find your own ‘Nature’ depicted with frightful grandeur. Consequently, you will practice what you preach – with serenity of the sage and the calm of a balanced mind. BEYONDISM catalyses you in the direction of acting spontaneously from the forever incalculable prompting of the immense wellhead of potential within you.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

1. BASICALLY, people can be divided into introverts and extroverts, and this will play a large role in the character they develop. There are more extroverts than introverts in the world.
2. EXTROVERTS see the world differently from INTROVERTS. You might notice tendencies in both directions in yourself, but in general people trend in one or the other direction.
3. ABILITY to differ with the other person is healthy. It is important to gauge this in others for a simple reason: introverts and extroverts do not naturally understand each other.
4. READILY, to the extrovert, the introvert has no fun, is stubborn, even antisocial. To the introvert, the extrovert is shallow, flighty, and overly concerned with what people think.
5. INDEED, being one or the other is something genetic and will make two people see the same thing in a totally different light. Prone to constant conflicts, they may not get along well.
6. NOW, once you understand you are dealing with someone of the other variety than yourself, you must reassess their character and not foist your own preferences on them.
7. GROOMED well, and out of necessity, sometimes introverts and extroverts can work well together, particularly if people have a mix of both qualities and they compliment each other.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Measuring yourself only upon which you can accomplish competently.

1. FEELINGS and taste of myself, of I and ME above and in all things, my consciousness, is my ‘being’.
   Core Choice #38: It is what answers: ‘Who, what, whence, whither, why am I?’
   Sure Score #38: It is therefore, incommunicable by any means to another person.
2. ONE’S anxiety that one is someone else is all that one needs to believe that the world is nearing the end.
   Solid Stance #38: Lift the farm like a lid and see farm within farm, and in the center, YOU.
   Catalysing Consideration #38: Self under self, a pile of selves you stand threaded on time.
3. REAL past is shut in you like the leaves of a book known to you by heart; friends can only read the title.
   Mighty Mission #38: You are always with yourself, and it is you who is your tormentor.
   Vivid Vision #38: Always be fond of yourself, there is that lot of you and all so sweet.
4. MOST human beings have thus become to so great a degree merely a cog in an intricate social system.
   Gaining Ground #38: This has led to alienation from the real self.
   Capturing Clouds #38: One suffers from a decline of human values.
5. USUALLY you are yourself plus your circumstance and if you do not save it, you cannot save yourself.
   Lofty Leap #38: Never be an object, but essentially, be a subject, who is the center of your reality.
   Merry Momentum #38: Not a piece of furniture in a repair shop where all the ‘YOU’ is withdrawn.
6. LIVELY, you will be certain of yourself only because you find in the actual reality nothing but yourself.
   Holy Hearken #38: You will be everywhere and a person of all times.
   Divine Distinction #38: For you, there will be neither time nor space.
7. AUTHENTICITY is a final distillation of self, a final editing down; the drowning out of false voices.
   Prudent Planting #38: Let nothing come between you and what you would like to be.
   Hoped Harvest #38: If you allow helplessness, you will lose your true SELF forever.

#38. To the extent I embark on a PILGRIMAGE to know myself,
Which are the CHARACTERISTICS that uniquely defines me?

INTROVERT:
Being less talkative lends you towards having good listening skills.
You are good at connecting and empathising with the people you interact with.
In conversations you let others reveal more of their thoughts and feelings.
You can hold deep and meaningful conversations by giving others full attention.
You can be very independent because you often do not need others approval.
You can enjoy your own company while concentrating on close relationships.
Your privacy gives you an aura of mystery which can perk people’s interest.

EXTROVERT:
You learn your social skills at a faster rate than an introvert would.
You are very outgoing and usually motivated to attend social gatherings.
You mingle with new people exposing yourself to various social interactions.
You usually have a story to tell because of exposure to new interactions.
Your craving for social interactions means that you can make friends easily.
You are easy to get to know as you let your thoughts and feelings be known.
You love to be engaged in casual conversation to a wide variety of people.

#38. INTROVERT:
I, ___________________________, anchoring the process of how I get my ENERGY, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, my Introversion, is an attitude where I am prone to directing my energy towards myself, whether it is from deep reflective thinking, reading books or just enjoying my own company, whereas extroverts direct their energy outwards with activities such as socialising, playing a team sport, risk taking etc. I appreciate that, in the modern world today, it is more desirable to be more extroverted and outgoing, this is where we have people encouraging other people to “go get yourself noticed” or “let your voice be heard” or “show everyone what your made of”. With that said people like me with an introvert personality can often be misconstrued as being withdrawn and shy, but actually this is not the case at all.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, as an introvert, I am not unsociable, I am just sociable in a different way to extroverts. I prefer more low key activities involving close friends in a small group setting or deep, intimate one to one conversations with a good friend. These are some general characteristics which I may possess: Quiet, Have a few but close friends, Enjoy my own company, Independent, Internally energized, Self Aware, Keeps my personal life to myself, Do not impose myself vigorously, Deep or complex thinker.

#38. EXTROVERT:
I, ___________________________, anchoring the process of how I get my ENERGY, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, my Extroversion, is an attitude where I direct my energy outwards by seeking stimulus from either being social and outgoing, having risk taking activities and generally seeking excitement from the outside environment. These traits are contrary to being an introvert. I appreciate that, the modern western world often praises extrovert characteristics which is usually perceived as being well adjusted and often socially intelligent; to quote Susan Cain: “We live in a culture of personality, where extraversion is ideal, a far departure from the past that was the culture of character which prized honour and discipline.”

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, naturally being an extrovert comes with a lot more emotionally rich experiences leading to possibly a more varied lifestyle than introverts; usually keeping an eye open to meet new people and networking opportunities. I generally have more doors opened for me due to the sheer amount of socialising I do and prefer being around the company of other people and being included in novelty situations. These are the general characteristics which I may possess: Outspoken, Thrives in the company of other people, Constantly seeks new experiences, Easily bored, Drawn to crowds, Generally quite, Animated, Assertive, Responsive to external stimulus, Opinionated.

INTROVERT:
PROPOSE: - I am proud of directing my energy mainly toward my inner world of experience and ideas. I am energised by inner world, focus on thoughts, concepts, reflective, have depth of interest, thrive in concentration, and I am inwardly directed.
OPPOSE: - Because as an introvert I have sensitive cortical processes (those parts of the brain which regulate levels of arousal ranging from sleep to states of high alertness), I am apt to be more easily conditioned. However, the ease with which I become conditioned, also makes me more liable to anxiety-based neurosis; which is conditioned emotional responses. In the modern age where being an extrovert is seen as desirable and seems to open more doors especially in sales and the entertainment industry, being an introvert definitely has its disadvantages. Because I am private in nature and guard my thoughts and emotions, it can be difficult for me to form friendships with many people. This may be partly because, I am not as socialised as other people, having not learnt the necessary skills to be a social butterfly. This is due to being used to having my own personal space and distance. My inability to be outspoken or speak my mind, may make me feel isolated and cause me to withdraw even further than I have already.
DISPOSE: - Though being introvert or enjoying my own company is not usually the problem, it is the perception of being an introvert which can make people think it is a social deficiency to not want to be constantly around others. This in itself can cause people to doubt my character and perceive me differently to other people. Although I hate networking and will refuse to show up to networking events, I have fewer intimate friends. While I may have deeper relationships than my extroverted comrades, in a world of facebook friends and twitter followers, it is easy to compare my LIFE to others in terms of quantity over quality. Because I am a natural deep thinker, I can give an in depth and well thought out answers when in conversation, and when faced with a difficult decision, I am likely to weigh up my options logically and carefully.