YOU MUST BE SURE THAT THE MOMENT when you find WHO YOU ARE, all other things will be added unto you or their loss will not be felt. SELF-ACTUALIZATION may not necessarily make you rich (moneywise, although it can), but it will make you PSYCHICALLY rich and free.

SEVEN therapeautic tonics to loftily LOCATE your LIFE’s BASIC BEARING:

1. BASICALLY, it is critical to keep in mind that the expression of your INCISIVE INDIVIDUALITY can be encouraged or discouraged by all kinds of environmental factors.
2. ESSENTIALLY, to seek your PSYCHIC health, to consolidate your CHARACTER strength and to arouse your EMOTIONAL stability, you may need a new psychological environment.
3. ALL important researches points to the fact that (and it is always a soulful consolation to reflect) though you cannot change your heredity you can change your present situation.
4. REST assured that, a human being (past or present, young or old), is creatively composed of heredity, environment and that progressive and remoulding force, which we call LIFE.
5. IT is so true that you may put it down in your PSYCHIC tablet that you shall not change yourself substantially; that you shall not fully or optimally channel your PSYCHIC energy,
6. NOT unless you change the stimuli (environment), which beat upon your PSYCHE from hour to hour, from day to day and which may in the long run form you at last in its image.
7. GENERALLY, at this stage in your LIFE, this may not be possible, but if you make it a vow, you will eventually be able to settle in an environment that awakens your core individuality.

Here is BEYONDISM FORMIDABLE FORMULA for SELF-ACTUALIZATION
(The ‘head’ and ‘tail’ of Activating your SELFHOOD) in regard to:
Pasting your personality on the wall of your PSYCHE to continually see it.

1. FORCING your way out through a need to open your heart, is productivity; creating with heart’s blood.
   Core Choice #40: We seriously undervalue the passion a person brings to an enterprise.
   Sure Score #40: You can simply rent a brain, but you cannot in any way rent a heart.
2. ONLY in a full heart will you find room for everything; in an empty heart there will be room for nothing.
   Solid Stance #40: Your heart should thus be a lonely hunter, that hunts on a lonely hill.
   Catalysing Consideration #40: Expose thyself to feel what humans feels; never act out.
3. RICH emotional LIFE is the best; the test of a successful person is the ability to cope with agitations.
   Mighty Mission #40: Negative emotional reactions are the lowest form of human consciousness.
   Vivid Vision #40: Emotionalism is the most contracted, narrowing, dangerous form of behaviour.
4. MOTIVATE yourself towards having the most comprehensive formulation of esteemed LIFE goals.
   Gaining Ground #40: Strive for wholeheartedness: be without pretense, and be emotionally sincere.
   Capturing Clouds #40: Put the whole of your BEING into your feelings, your work, and your beliefs.
5. UNREALISTIC distrust of our senses, is what prevents us from feeling comfortable in the universe.
   Lofty Leap #40: If you fight against all your sensations, you will have no standard to which to refer.
   Merry Momentum #40: And no means of judging even those judgments which you pronounce false.
6. LIVE through your passions as naturally as you can, and expect the probability of real misfortunes.
   Holy Hearken #40: You will arouse in your soul a true sense and feeling thereof.
   Divine Distinction #40: A human being’s whole LIFE is a history of sentiments.
7. ASPIRE to vibrate all strings in your heart; your LIFE shall be a sweet melody as you live jubilantly.
   Prudent Planting #40: Your value lies in feeling, in intention, in your vision, and in your subtlety.
   Hoped Harvest #40: You can accomplish a great deal provided that pedantry does not spoil you.

#40. To te extent as I desire to be whole in the FORM that is ME,
Which are the core characteristics that defines my CONTENT?

THINKING:
Continue valuing and trusting detached, objective, and logical analysis.
Reward yourself for being clear-thinking, objective, and well-reasoned.
Sharpen your innate ability of being logical in everyday decision-making.
You are intellectually independent, resistant to influence, self-confident.
Always thrive in being comfortable making distinctions and categorising.
Keep enjoying making win/lose choices, being in adversarial situations.
Always be firm, results oriented, pushing for valued ends, sticking on task.

FEELING:
Trusts and in touch with emotions and feelings, values human considerations.
Your source of power is making decisions on overall impressions and patterns.
Your driving force are your feelings which includes emotional likes and dislikes.
You always seeks consensus, are deferential, conflict avoiding and seek harmony.
You thrive in tolerance towards human failings, seeing positive side of others.
Your distinction lies in instinctually seeking win/win resolutions of problems.
You are able to use gentle persuasion to influence, reluctant to force compliance.

#40. THINKING:
I, ___________________________, channeling the process of how I make DECISIONS, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, my Thinking Function is about order and organisation, being objective, detached, able to discriminate, and using logic. As a Thinking preference individual, I naturally seek to understand cause and effect - using an orderly chain of reasoning to establish the relationships. My Thinking mind seeks the truth, getting to the heart of the matter in an objective way.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, I will fully experience being in my Thinking function when I am being dispassionate, able to make decisions at arms-length from whatever emotional turmoil may surround a situation. My Thinking is about principles and well organised foundations for beliefs. It is the engine that devises strategies and creates organised, conceptual structures.

#40. FEELING:
I, ___________________________, channeling the process of how I make DECISIONS, do DECISIVELY DECLARE that, My Feeling Function is about values, beliefs, moral foundations, and the human condition. It is about being open to emotions, sensations, needs, and thoughts. It is about being subjective, valuing the conclusions that arise from within. My Feeling mind desires harmony, values being attached rather than being detached, and is sensitive to my inner self as well as sensitive to others and their needs.

In this reference, as a BLESSED BEYONDIST, I hereby, make an ABSOLUTE AFFIRMATION that, this attachment to people, ideas, and moral foundations direct my action and decisions. The Feeling function is an internalised moral and spiritual compass that provides my direction and guidance - without the need to consciously analyse or understand why.

THINKING:
PROPOSE: - I am a tough-minded Thinking person, who looks at data and decides if it is true or false. I am proud to have the strengths of being logical, analytical, objective, organised. I have critical ability, I am just and stands firm.
OPPOSE: - I should be cautious of my weaknesses of failing to notice people’s feelings, misunderstands others’ values, being uninterested in conciliation or persuasion, does not show feelings, or shows less mercy. In school as a Thinking student, I will respect the teacher if he or she is logical and fair. However, if I happen to reject the teacher, I may either become indifferent to the subject, learn it in spite of the teacher, or misbehave to annoy the teacher. I can be quite good at rationalising my behaviour and feel quite justified. It is called “cutting off the nose to spite the face.”
DISPOSE: - I prefer objective, tangible ‘black and white’ criteria to measure my success. I am often a task and goal focused, enjoy competition and want to win. I judge performances on results – in future I may tend to use money as an impersonal, factual measurement of my success. I live by pros and cons lists. I prefer to get to the point. I use logic and analysis to critique proposals and ideas, and use logic to convince. I prefer to make a connection with the person before getting down to the business at hand. I spontaneously appreciate things and appeal to people’s emotions when trying to convince. I get annoyed that the person I am talking with has made small talk for awhile and still has not come to the point. I should know that I am probably talking to a feeling type and that this is an important part of their process to set the stage for their request or providing information.