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S E L F H O O D _ S T E P _ # 1
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P RUDENTLY PROPELLING your 'Generational Gear' MUST be your first major 'Mortal Mission'. This is gorgeously grounded on your distinguished 'Divine Duty' to Practice Pragmatic THINKING. As an ennobling encouragement to you, to 'know more about the needs of your era in the context of your generation and move to the rock bottom of your being', BEYONDISM reflectively seeks to "RESTATE" your response to the PROMPTING (not really a question) No. 1.i, 1.ii, 1.iii and 1.iv consecutively.

The THERAPEUTIC TARGET here is: To help you to understand your internal frame of reference, as a function of the 'general spirit' of your Times, which should enable you to listen to, and obey the cry of a gift hiding in you.
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Here now flows (hover/tap below) the BEYONDISM distilled definition of:--->
Working Involving Seeing Destroying Overriding Magnetising

Working out to fully exploit your talents and capacities.
Involving your mind with new and inspiring concepts.
Seeing old things in an ever refreshing new percepts.
Destroying all fabrics of falsity and endeavouring afresh.
Overriding all superstitions and intellectual inhibitions.
Magnetising your mind for big, ennobling enterprises.

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Selfhood Skills Seven

SELFHOOD RATING
1,2,3,4,5,6,7.

Selfhood Skills One
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R#1. On ADAMANTLY saying: "That is the way I am, and that is all there is to it".
O thee TAO, behold, Critically CULTIVATE your sincere strive to ABHOR ADAMANCY.--->
  1. SURELY, the human mind cannot be taken at any rate to be something completely rigid and immoveable.
  2. USUALLY people are FREE to change, in as much as they prudely CHOOSE and WILL themselves to be so.
  3. MEASURED as changeability, is wisdom. Blessed are the hearts that can bend; they shall never be broken.
  4. MOVEMENT is the solid basis of LIFE. The more fluid you really are, the more you are apparently ALIVE.
  5. ACQUIRE vision stubbornness, but be flexible on details. Stick to decisions, but stay flexible in approach.
  6. REAL flexibility is the key to stability. Be clear about goals but be flexible about the process of achieving it.
  7. YES, the one with the most flexibility has the best chance of achieving the outcome of his or her desires.
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R#2. On finding yourself unable to see possibilities or seize OPPORTUNITIES.
O thee BB, behold, Critically CULTIVATE your sincere strive to OWN OPPORTUNITIES.--->
  1. SINCERE as they are in their idealisations, people often remark that some individuals are pretty lucky.
  2. USUALLY, luck is only important insofar as getting the chance to sell yourself at the right moment.
  3. MAINLY, after that, you have got to have solid and practical talent and diligently know how to use it.
  4. MOST opportunities are so small that we glimpse them not; yet they are the seeds of great enterprises.
  5. ALL opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them. Today's actions creates future.
  6. REASONABLY, always let your hook be hanging. When you least expect it, a great fish will swim by.
  7. YOUR big opportunity is where you are NOW. There is latent POWER waiting for you to discover it.
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R#3. On being RECOGNISED, listened to, or being the center of attention.
O thee TAO, behold, Intimately IRRIGATE your hallowed hope to REFUSE RECOGNITION.--->
  1. SUCCESS will be a painful path and an empty trophy without solid self-worth or if littered with self-hate.
  2. UNINHIBITED, before you chase success, power, wealth, fame or love; first fall in love with yourself.
  3. MOST ordinary people pursue money, simple one's power, average one's fame; extraordinary one's ideas.
  4. MUCH wealth will not make you happy or powerful. Fame will not make you remarkable or honourable.
  5. ALL those who are obsessed with a need for recognition usually buries underneath a sense of emptiness.
  6. REALLY unfortunate, many of us are prone to equate "greatness" with fame, fortune, status and power.
  7. YOU are the Nature's pilot. Be invisible in what you do. To be in hell is to drift; to be in heaven is to steer.
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R#4. On finding it hard to ADJUST to new environments or situations.
O thee BB, behold, Proactively PROPAGATE your awakened aspiration to ACQUIRE ADJUSTMENT.--->
  1. SINCE we are living in an open society with a space for tolerance and indulgence, we must keep adapting.
  2. USUALLY the "normality barometer" in habits should be keenly determined and adjusted, time after time.
  3. MEANINGFUL LIFE is about evolving mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. Stagnation is virtual death.
  4. MOSTLY, the principal mark of a GENIUS is not perfection but originality; the opening of new frontiers.
  5. AN EXPERT is a person who has stopped thinking. Why should he or she think? He or she KNOWS ALL.
  6. REALLY, it is never too late to live the LIFE of your DREAMS. Believe in your ability to make it happen.
  7. YOU must be wise like water, and adapt as well as appreciate whomever you are with, wherever you are.
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R#5. On COMPLAINING: "Oh, poor. Poor me. How unfair this situation is".
O thee TAO, behold, Natively NURTURE your wondrous wish to CURTAIL COMPLAINS.--->
  1. SINCERELY speaking, the usual FORTUNE of complaint is to excite CONTEMPT more than PITY.
  2. UNDERSTAND that, constant complaint is the POOREST sort of PAY for all the comforts we enjoy.
  3. MEANINGFUL contentment is an attitude that says, I will be satisfied with what God has given me.
  4. MERRY happiness will never come to those who fail to like and appreciate what they already have.
  5. ACTUAL content is not less desire; be thankful for what you have and patience for what is to come.
  6. REALISTICALLY, robust rejoicing comes from many great and small acceptances in normal LIFE.
  7. YOUR JOY is the greatest form of wealth. A contented heart is a calm sea in the midst of all storms.
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R#6. On hesitating to DELAY present desire for a meaningful objective.
O thee BB, behold, Reverentially REAP your deep desire to DELAY DESIRE.--->
  1. SELF-CONTROL is essential to success, in relation to habits, character, attitude, emotions, and actions.
  2. ULTIMATELY, the only power to which a person should aspire is that which one exercises over oneself.
  3. MERRY progress is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you.
  4. MEANINGFULLY the highest stage in culture is upon recognising that we ought to control our thoughts.
  5. ANY person who cannot obey him or herself will be commanded. That is the nature of living creatures.
  6. REIGNING over desires makes one more than a King. In that POWER lays the seed of eternal freedom.
  7. YOUR brain shall be your servant instead of your master; you will rule it instead of allowing it to rule you.
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R#7. On STUBBORNLY achieving what you wants, and having your own way.
O thee TAO, behold, Reverentially REAP your deep desire to SHUN STUBBORNNESS. --->
  1. SAFE harbours do not exist in LIFE— the only safe harbour is the false or fake sense of competency.
  2. UNDENIABLY the moment you feel self-satisfied is dangerous; at this point you start to degenerate.
  3. MOTIVATE yourself to being adaptive and flexible. This makes you an agent of 'creative destruction'.
  4. MAKING yourself indiscriminately innovative is what is superbly necessary for all kinds of progress.
  5. ALWAYS having fixed notions and point of views, makes it difficult for other people to deal with you.
  6. RIGIDITY in your actions, eventually makes you closed to change and get stuck with your decisions.
  7. YOU will NEVER make it in LIFE by always picking up arguments, or petty fights to prove your point.
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THERAPEUTIC TEACHING #1:

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#I. The 1st AFRICAN AFFIRMATION:
  1. "By persevering the egg walks on legs".
    - Oromo (Ethiopian) proverb

  2. "The hunger that has hope for its satisfaction does not kill".
    - Igbo (Nigeria) proverb

  3. "A person who has not travelled widely thinks his or her mother is the best cook".
    - Buganda (Uganda) proverb

  4. "Nobody kills an ignorant person who begs for wisdom".
    - Mafa (Cameroon) proverb

  5. "Thoughts and dreams are the foundations of our being".
    - Yoruba (Nigeria) proverb

  6. "If you have no teeth, do not break the clay cooking pot".
    - Bakongo (DRC) proverb

  7. "It (a bug) grows up in dry wood, and yet comes to maturity".
    - Kikuyu (Kenya) proverb
#II. The 1st SACRED STANDING:
  1. "Besides this you know what hour it is, how it is full time now to wake from sleep".
    - BIBLE, Romans 13:11.

  2. "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil".
    - BIBLE, Psalm 23:4

  3. "Whoever is wise, let him understand these things; whoever is discerning, let him know them; for the ways of the LORD are right, and the upright walk in them, but transgressors stumble in them".
    - BIBLE, Hosea 14:9

  4. "And even when WE open to them the gateway to heaven so that they ascend to it all the while, they would certainly say: only our eyes have been covered over, rather we are an enchanted people".
    - QURAN, Al-Hijr 15: 14-15.

  5. "Surely with every difficulty there is ease".
    - QURAN, Al Inshirah 94:6

  6. "And do not make your hand to be shackled to your neck nor stretch it forth to utmost limit of stretching forth lest you should afterward sit down blamed, stripped off".
    - QURAN, Bani Isreal 17:29

  7. "To those who are constantly devoted to serving Me with love, I give the understanding by which they come unto Me".
    – BHAGAVAD-GITA, Opulence of the Absolute, X: 10

#III. The 1st ASSERTIVENESS ARITHMETIC:

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You have a _______ preference of AWARENESS over SLOTHFULNESS (____%). N.B. To get your REAL RATING, you MUST respond to SELFHOOD RATING in the BEYONDIST SELFHOOD CODE. SO WHAT? Here is your TIMELY THERAPY.--->

You have a _______ preference of AWARENESS over SLOTHFULNESS (____%). N.B. To get your REAL RATING, you MUST respond to SELFHOOD RATING in the BEYONDIST SELFHOOD CODE. SO WHAT? Here is your TIMELY THERAPY.--->

INTROSPECTION + OBSERVATION = AWARENESS

To be INTROSPECTIVE means to look inside, and examine your thoughts and emotions. To OBSERVE is the act of taking an existential view of yourself; to better know how to function at your optimal levels of success. This type of self-analysis, eliminates the interference of the more immature emotions, which make you fall victim to being reactive, fearful, impulsive or indecisive in LIFE. The result of SELF-AWARENESS, is the brave and admirable quality of being able to think independently, which empowers you to rely exclusively on the observation of your own mental state to succeed. With self-awareness you become unafraid to be different, you embrace the uniqueness of your mind, the radicalness of your ideas, and your ability to reason through change - both positive and negative.



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Successful Studentship #1:

Seek to stay away from sparrows; eagles fly with eagles; associate only with the disciplined.
Usually, following the rules gives you a better chance of maximising your learning potential.
Clearly, you are likely to learn more than your counterparts who become discipline statistics.
Choosing to change your behaviour, is the only fundamental way to optimise your intelligence.
Even if struggling academically, when well behaved, it is easy for teachers to DEAL with you.
Surely, nobody wants to work with a student who constantly causes problems and frustrations.
Smartly, most teachers will try to move mountains for students who are polite, and respectful.

The underlying 1st Perceptive Principle is based on the analogy of an Eagle:
EAGLES FLY WITH EAGLES

  • Eagles fly alone at a high altitude and not with other smaller birds.
  • No other bird goes to the height of the eagle.
  • Eagles fly with Eagles, never in a flock.
  • Even when Moses (Old Testament Bible) went to commune with God on the mountain, he left the crowd at the foothills.

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#IV. The 1st POTENT POWER:
i. MONK MODE #1 --->
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Truthful Monk Mode is a framework for self-advancing of your Social Market Value (SMV).

Hastening your rise in the hierarchy of power within a short space of time, is its vital ideal.

Essentially, it is arousing your innate potential of becoming stronger, smarter and refined.

Robustly, it is integrating self-improving behaviour and positive motivations into your LIFE.

Actually, it is overcoming PSYCHIC hurdles by Introspection, Isolation and Improvement.

Purposive Monk Mode is all about mitigating distractions and focusing on self-betterment.

Your engagement in such an endeavour is going to demand sacrifice, and commitments.

ii. WITTY WARFARE #1 --->
Shield from or dampen the hangover of irresponsible VIDEO/COMPUTER GAMING.
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True Game addiction is defined as any behaviour that features the SIX core components.

How it dominate your thinking (total preoccupation), and feelings (cravings) is very critical.

Experiencing an arousing 'buzz' or a tranquilising feeling of 'escape' or 'numbing' is evident.

Rogue, gradual build up of the amount of the gaming time to get mood modifying effects.

Awfully feeling unpleasant (shakes, moodiness, irritability) when prevented from playing.

Profusely experiencing conflicts between your gaming, your parents and your school work.

You find yourself reverting back to your gaming actions after a short period of abstinence.

iii. WITTY WARFARE #2 --->
Struggling with ADVERSITY to alter PERSPECTIVE.
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Troubling as it is, we tend to allow negative emotions to become a source of shame or guilt.

However, we could be making those feelings worse, therefore missing out on their benefits.

Existential LIFE's greatest challenges can be opportunities for significant PERSONAL growth.

Reasonably, people say that life-threatening health scares can became blessings in disguise.

Altering their perspectives and highlighting what is so important in LIFE is the consequence.

Prudently, most valuable lessons arose from difficulties and setbacks people had to confront.

Yielding unexpected gifts is the end result of these accepted imperfections and adversities.

iv. ADORABLE ANTIDOTE #1 --->
SUPERFLUOUS STAGNATION: - Stumbling aimlessly equipped with obsolete notions.
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The main cause of all the problems besetting you lies not in the outer world but in yourself.

Have it that, not in the problems you have to solve but in how you approach their solutions.

Endowed thus, the onus is on you to be solution oriented rather than be a defeated grumbler.

Reflection is the diligent desire to fully realise the 'existential' drama in which you are acting.

Awaken during your lifetime, by keenly watching yourself, as well as the social world outside.

Purposively try to find a cure for all the ailments and alive at a more fulfilling, healthier LIFE.

You are NOW faced with an uncontestable decision to accurately diagnose your perceptions.

v. ADORABLE ANTIDOTE #2 --->
PUERILE PRAGMATISM: - Believing in immutable, absolute, eternal scheme of things.
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There are no absolute incorrigible, first TRUTHS that are given with inerrant CERTAINTY.

Happily, incisive IDEALS are true if they are successful in resolving problematic situations.

Essentially, the MEANING of IDEAS is found only in terms of their possible consequences.

Resultantly, in the absence of practical consequences any IDEA just becomes meaningless.

Apparent theories are only instruments for dealing with problems that arise in experience.

Precisely, TRUTH is something that happens to an IDEA in the process of its verification.

Your particular thought is a TOOL and its test is in the comprehension and control of LIFE.

vi. STOUT SPIRIT #1 --->
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Troubles abide, and LIFE is constant struggle, as you may find yourself facing bad situations.

How you will be able to confront various inevitable difficulties will deftly determine your FATE.

Entrapment in destructive relationships and/or dangerous engagements, may be an incidence.

Really, this is not to assert that you should CYNICALLY lose faith in the goodness of humanity.

Actually, you should also not be constantly EMBROILED in the endless battlefield of the MIND.

Prudently, the clearer your self-knowledge, the clearer your sense of purpose will SOLIDLY be.

You will feel composed and motivated, and consequently you will have space for true friendship.

vii. STOUT SPIRIT #2 --->
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The energy that most people tend to exude is numbingly negative and awfully repellent.

Having an encounter with the chronically negative, you will in future want to avoid them.

Effetely, if you are also poignantly negative, other people will do their utmost to avoid you.

Resist decadence, and seek to cultivate the mental model of positive energy (abundance).

Avoid the meaningless, purposeless, powerless, mental model of negative energy (scarcity).

Prod with gusto, and always imagine yourself being happy in spite of any sort of rejection.

Yearning to be joyful, the "the power of no" becomes moot and you achieve independence.

#V. SURVIVAL SKILLS (1):
i. POLISHED PERSUASION #1 ---> TAP

Thoroughly thought out PERSUASION is the most essential weapon in this indifferent world.

Hope is roused by PERSUASION as it is the art of influencing others in your mind's direction.

Entailed here is getting others to volitionally DO what they DO NOT want to DO and LIKE it.

Robust PERSUASION is the science of subtly seducing or swaying others to your view point.

Assertively, this incisively implies prevailing upon others to obey you and do what you want.

Purposive and precise PERSUASION is the philosophy of winning over others hardened views.

Your enduring impact means creating a win-win situation for both parties in any negotiation.

ii. POLISHED PERSUASION #2 ---> TAP

The bitter truth is that nobody likes to feel HELPLESS, timid or even unable to reach people.

Hard facts attest that nothing will bring you more power today than the ability to persuade.

Effetely repressing the deliberate desire to persuade is only a kind of HYSTERICAL reaction.

Revealing your deep-down, but hidden FASCINATION with the process is what this amounts.

Awkwardly you are only strengthening the desires, which will one day surface out to haunt.

Practically, to have the persuading power does not require a total character transformation.

You do not also really need any kind of artificial physical improvement in your body features.

iii. AMICABLE APPROACH #1 ---> TAP

Time and time again people are constantly trying to INFLUENCE us, to tell us what to do.

Hardened in our spirit, we often tune them out, RESISTING their attempts at persuasion.

Esteeming catharsis, there is a moment in our lives, however, when we all act differently.

Released from self-absorption, this is when we are in love, and we fall under a kind of spell.

At the most basic level, our minds are usually preoccupied with our own egoistic concerns.

Prompted to grow emotional, our mind may become filled with thoughts of the loved one.

Yearning for bonding, we lose the ability to think straight, and act in unusual foolish ways.

iv. AMICABLE APPROACH #2 ---> TAP

True LOVE is what defines real humans; it is much more effective to create love than lust.

Held together by a strong bond, one who is in LOVE is emotional, pliable, and easily led.

Effetely, a person who is in lust is harder to control; once satisfied, one may easily leave.

Robust, sincere, true lovers take their time; create enchantment and bonds of attraction.

Affirmatively, when romance finally ensues it only serves to further captivate the victim.

Proactively creating LOVE and enchantment becomes the model for all real SEDUCTIONS.

Yonder and BEYOND, be it romantic, social, or political, one in LOVE will easily surrender.

v. AMICABLE APPROACH #3 ---> TAP

Totally qualitative communication is a key component to building an enduring relationship.

Healthy relationships are based on making sure you both want and expect the same things.

Effectively being on the same page is very important, but expecting some differences is vital.

Romance implies that, if something is bothering you, you talk about it instead of holding it in.

Amorously, your significant other's wishes and feelings have value, so readily respect them.

Purposively, let your partner know you are making an effort to keep his or her ideas in mind.

Yearning for reciprocating respect is supremely essential in maintaining solid relationships.

vi. INDOCTRINATION INNOCULATION #1 ---> TAP

Traditional reference groups (band, clan or tribe), formerly provided a common sense of identity.

Horribly, in their absence, one may find oneself magnetically relating to or attracted to a 'Cult'.

Entrenched is the quest for a sense of belonging or a sense of acceptance or a sense of approval.

Roguery, upon recruitment members are put in a physically or emotionally distressing situation.

Awfully, their problems are reduced to a repeatedly emphasised simple FANTASTIC explanation.

Profusely, they are subjected to a kind of 'love bombardment', receiving unconditional attention.

Yearn to armour your psyche, have a sound identity, by investing in self-invigorating activities.

vii. TOXIC TRAIT #1 --->
The Brute TAP

To be calm, contained and patient is a good show that you are thinking of the other people.

However, impatience has the opposite effect; it shows one is interested only in one's needs.

Enervating Brutes are concerned only with their own pleasure; are insensitive to your needs.

Redundantly, Brutes offend you with their egotism which hides a gnawing sense of inferiority.

Affirmatively, if you just spurn them or make them wait, they will overreact in an angry way.

Proactively, if you suspect you are dealing with a Brute, delay the gratification of their needs.

You will know everything you need to know by their response, upon putting them on this test.

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This then is the 1st VERITABLE VALUATION of BEYONDISM: Pray, Believe, Interact, Work, Penetrate, Live and Actualise.--->

This then is the 1st VERITABLE VALUATION of BEYONDISM: Pray, Believe, Interact, Work, Penetrate, Live and Actualise.--->

It is optimum in living by ideals and having people learn your principles and respecting you for having them. When you live LIFE freelance and do things impulsively, rashly, brashly and recklessly, it will appear that you are chaotic, unpredictable and untrustworthy. Have a clear conception of what you want in the short-term, in the context of the long-term. When this core conviction is critically consolidated by a passionate believe in BEYONDISM, then your solid struggle in this game of LIFE will ultimately yield fruits.

#VII. The 1st ESTEEMED EXPLORATION:
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"We can't change the world until we change ourselves." – American rapper and songwriter the Notorious B.I.G. (1972 – 1997). Here are SEVEN ways on how you will be AWARDED ACCORDINGLY:--->

"We can't change the world until we change ourselves." – American rapper and songwriter the Notorious B.I.G. (1972 – 1997). Here are SEVEN ways on how you will be AWARDED ACCORDINGLY:--->

EMBRACING GROWTH AND APPRECIATING CHANGE:

As a Yearning Youth and a Serious Student, you MUST be adaptive, fluid, versatile and flexible in all aspects of your LIFE. You MUST keep your PSYCHIC antenae finely tuned if you have to be wholly responsive to the rapid developments which are taking place in this age of IT Revolution. In this way, you will succeed in your academic affairs and your social LIFE will be well oiled.

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ffirmatively, in our Human 'Existence' nothing is static, movement is imperative. Everything is always in a state of motion; either backward or forward; either growth or decay. And plainly speaking, it is easier to change ourselves than to transform anyone else. "There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving", wrote English novelist, essayist, critic and poet Leonard Aldous Huxley (1894–1963), "and that is your own self". We might refer this as the datum of our quest for a 'LUMINOUS LIFE'; an impetus to self-improvement. It implicitly lies on the realisation of existence of a latent germ of being — a capacity or potentiality striving to realise and actualise itself.

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