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![]() 2A/3P which is the brand name for this SELF-ACTUALIZATION Model simply means “African Assertiveness / Provoking Positive Perceptions”. African Assertiveness implies believing that you have ‘answers’ to the problems besetting you, and assuming total responsibility for the sacrifice required in order to arrive to the solution. This is a purely individual enterprise which can only be achieved only if you Provoke Positive Perceptions. |
![]() “Let me assert my firm belief” so proclaimed president Franklin Delano Roosevelt (1882 - 1945), the 32nd president of the United States (1933 - 1945), in his inaugural speech (1933) “that, the only thing we have to fear is fear itself – that nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyses needed EFFORTS to CONVERT RETREAT into ADVANCE.” (Emphasis mine.) BEYONDISM arouses you on how to amass the PERSONAL PREROGATIVE of boldly upgrading your i. EFFORTS to ii.CONVERT iii. RETREAT into iv.ADVANCE, thus v. TURNING vi.FAILURE to vii. SUCCESS.“Let me assert my firm belief” so proclaimed president Franklin Delano Roosevelt (1882 - 1945), the 32nd president of the United States (1933 - 1945), in his inaugural speech (1933) “that, the only thing we have to fear is fear itself – that nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyses needed EFFORTS to CONVERT RETREAT into ADVANCE.” (Emphasis mine.) BEYONDISM arouses you on how to amass the PERSONAL PREROGATIVE of boldly upgrading your i. EFFORTS to ii.CONVERT iii. RETREAT into iv.ADVANCE, thus v. TURNING vi.FAILURE to vii. SUCCESS.
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ESTABLISHINGLY ENTITLING your ‘Personality Pathway’ MUST be your fifth major ‘Mortal Mission’. This is gorgeously grounded on your distinguished ‘Divine Duty’, to Harness Holistic BEHAVIOUR. As an ennobling encouragement to you ......., to ‘channel your immense gifts and vent out your pent-up energies towards productivity’, BEYONDISM reflectively seeks to “RESTATE” your response to the PROMPTINGS (not really questions) No. 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, (38, 39, 40, 41) & 1.vi consecutively.The THERAPEAUTIC TARGET here is: To help you to have a complete and profound understanding of your personality; flooding yourself with the self-belief that, nobody can beat you at being your REAL SELF. ---> ![]() |
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Your PERSONALITY PATHWAY should teach you the value of DEATH. THERAPEAUTIC TREASURE #5 “Death is not the greatest loss in life...is what dies inside while still alive.” |
1. Precisely apprectiating DEATH, is to live fully:---> DEATH is categorically what the living carries with them anytime, anywhere. |
2. Reality of DEATH gives MEANING to LIFE:---> All human drama is, to a great extent, a story of coping with the terror of death. Nothing in LIFE can really prepare us for the inevitable and singular event of death. The human mind is not capable of comprehending the full enormity of finally dying. The horror of biting the dust after a lifelong struggle to make LIFE enjoyable is fatal. But, we begin to understand the meaning of LIFE, if we stare at death unflinchingly. Shattering the delusion of the fear of death does not mean the denial of death. Acceptance of a possible DEATH can save us by honest assertion of present LIFE. |
3. Entertain the idea of DEATH as holding key to LIFE:---> DEATH annihilates the old, in order to facilitate the emergence of new things. In a strange way, we cannot truly live without awareness of LIFE’s inevitable end. How can we live fully and vitally, if we spend a LIFE time running away from death? LIFE is defined by its fragility and finiteness, and death holds the key to real living. Fools think they can avoid death anxiety by immersing themselves in pleasures. Death is like an unfathomable black hole, capable of destroying all our happiness. The idea of death challenges us to fill the huge void by living a LIFE of significance. |
4. Soaring higher and being heroic in our mortality:---> Human civilisation, is a defense mechanism against the knowledge of our mortality. This acts as the emotional and intellectual response to our basic survival mechanism. The authentic person is able to transcend the dilemma of mortality through heroism. By embarking on ‘immortality project’, one creates something which will last forever. In this way the person becomes ‘heroic’ and, henceforth, part of something eternal; Something that will never die compared to one’s physical body that will die one day. This in turn gives one the feeling that one’s LIFE has meaning, purpose and significance. |
5. Eventual DEATH is what informs human evolution:---> Without the DEATH of our ancestors, we would not have found ourselves on earth. Without DEATH, the human being’s emancipation from Dark-Age would be null. If humanity in its present state would be informed that DEATH will catch upon none, The result would be pathetic, disillusioning, and degeneration into utter carelessness. Existence would lack the power that draws humans to one another, and the world. The conviction of ‘Being-unto-death’ illumines our essential ‘Being-in-the-world’. The anticipation of possibility of DEATH makes the human evolution an actuality. |
6. Never fearing DEATH is the best reason to LIVE:---> The only positive and healthy fear of death would be the fear of dying unprepared. DEATH inspires us to make the most of our very precious LIFE instead of wasting it. The worst misfortune which can afflict a human being is dying with utter regrets. To avoid a sad and meaningless end to our LIFE, we need to use our LIFE wisely. There is no use in being afraid when we are on our deathbed and about to die. The time to fear death is while healthy; when we are in the vitality of our youth. Living productively and meaningfully is the key to dying merrily as well as joyfully. |
7. Taking the bull that is DEATH on its horns:---> You only soundly live twice; when you are born and when you look death to the face. Once you accept your own death, all of a sudden you are free to live LIFE in its entirety. You no longer care about your reputation, about how people will say about your acts. You no longer care except as your LIFE can be used to promote a cause you believe in. Productive labour extends our ‘I’ BEYOND the limits of our narrow fleeting existence. This is what BEYONDISM feels honoured to categorically crown as ‘Mortal Immortality’. Do not fear death so much, but rather the inadequate, a hopeless, and an empty LIFE. |
Here now flows (hover below) the BEYONDISM distilled definition of:--->
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R#29. On SELF-RIGHTEOUSLY proclaiming: “I cannot be a hypocrite”. O thee TAO, behold, Critically CULTIVATE your sincere strive to STOP SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS.--->
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R#30. On tending to say: “I do not have the morale to INDULGE myself in doing it”. O thee BB, behold, Critically CULTIVATE your sincere strive to INDULGE INSPIRINGLY.--->
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R#31. On having the tendency of seeking ASSURANCE from others for your actions. O thee TAO, behold, Intimately IRRIGATE your hallowed hope to ABSCOND ASSURANCES.--->
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R#32. On apologising with: “I am unable to make a sound DECISION on this issue”. O thee BB, behold, Proactively PROPAGATE your awakened aspiration to DECIDE DARINGLY.--->
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R#33. On thinking material gifts can create strong friendships without AFFECTION. O thee TAO, behold, Natively NURTURE your wondrous wish to AFFIRM AFFECTION.--->
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R#34. On finding it hard to AROUSE joyous feelings in other people. O thee BB, behold, Reverentially REAP your deep desire to AROUSE ANYONE.--->
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R#35. On feeling DESPERATE and helpless when in a pathetic situation. O thee TAO, behold, Reverentially REAP your deep desire to DARE DESPERATION.--->
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THERAPEAUTIC TEACHING #5: |
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#I. The 5th AFRICAN AFFIRMATION:
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#II. The 5th SACRED STANDING:
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| #III. The 5th ASSERTIVENESS ARITHMETIC: |
You have a _______ preference of FEARLESS over COWARDICE (____%). N.B. To get your REAL RATING, you MUST respond to SELFHOOD RATING in the BEYONDIST SELFHOOD CODE. SO WHAT? Here is your TIMELY THERAPY.--->You have a _______ preference of FEARLESS over COWARDICE (____%). N.B. To get your REAL RATING, you MUST respond to SELFHOOD RATING in the BEYONDIST SELFHOOD CODE. SO WHAT? Here is your TIMELY THERAPY.--->BELIEF + ACTION = FEARLESSNESS A sound and innovative mind comes from believing in yourself, your purpose and the direction of your LIFE pursuits. BELIEF is similar to commitment, in that belief slices away all meandering. Firm belief is the great manager of the enemies of doubt and delay. The only time to delay in LIFE, is when delay is used as a strategy to obtain the desired goal, and in that case delay would be a measure of patience. When delay is coming from doubt, it is deadly to your success. There is no result without ACTION. Action can be summed up as the courage to create measurable movement towards a goal. It is the outward expression of your belief. For actions to be bold, beliefs must be strong and determined. This is FEARLESSNESS. Fearlessness in LIFE is your greatest asset. |
TOP UP your BOLDNESS. Your Specific Score in regard to your Valiant Voyage in the SELFHOOD-SEARCH SEA, towards the Holy Harbour of your Active SELFHOOD stands at ____ points out of 49 points. HASTEN your AUDACITY. This parameter entails sensitivity to your feelings and needs; as a low scorer you will be out of touch with your emotional reactions to situations and events. EXISTENTIALLY, this is the essential extent to which, you will recognise both negative and positive emotions and permits them to enter into your PSYCHE. READILY, it is the diligent degree you will be aware of the inner rightness of yourself, of nature, and of peak experiences of LIFE. APPARENTLY, it is the meritorious measure of your accuracy in perception of the world and being comfortable in it. PRUDENTLY, when you will have passionately travelled this road you will be able to distinguish between the end goal that you will be striving for and the means of accomplishing it; enjoying the journey and appreciating it as well as the destination. YOUR categorical compass to Locate your BEARING here is ‘Optimum Sensitivity’. When in doubt, be honest. If you look into yourself and are honest, you will also take responsibility. Taking responsibility is ACTIVATING your SELFHOOD. |
Successful Studentship #5: Use the storms of LIFE (obstacles, trouble, etc) to rise to greater heights. The underlying 5th Perceptive Principle is based on the analogy of an Eagle:
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#IV. The 5th POTENT POWER: |
i. MONK MODE #5---> You cannot hope to have high social value without investing in yourself. |
ii. WITTY WARFARE #9---> There is no biological or even psychological justification of being a lesbian or a gay. |
iii. WITTY WARFARE #10---> Shame is deadly, and it is unfortunate that most people are swimming in it deep. |
iv. ADORABLE ANTIDOTE #9---> Courage belies success; LIFE shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s boldness. |
v. ADORABLE ANTIDOTE #10---> Flesh and blood is not like steel and needs to shed its weight from time to time. |
vi. STOUT SPIRIT #9---> True strength is psychological, it is a matter of intelligence, not material force. |
vii. STOUT SPIRIT #10---> The quantity of people in your LIFE is irrelevant to the energy you carry. |
| #V. The 5th SURVIVAL SKILLS: |
i. POLISHED PERSUASION #9---> Trust is the basic unit of social glue that enables us to interact without fear. |
ii. POLISHED PERSUASION #10---> What will persuade a person is the effort we expend on their behalf. |
iii. AMICABLE APPROACH #13---> Some people see life as a game, and courtship is an especially fun one. |
iv. AMICABLE APPROACH #14---> Disagreements are a natural and indispensable part of healthy relationships. |
v. AMICABLE APPROACH #15---> Let your partner know that you will stand for him or her in good and bad times. |
vi. INDOCTRINATION INNOCULATION #5---> Watch for attacks which are subtly or clearly targeted to have a blow on your self-esteem. |
vii. TOXIC TRAIT #5---> A windbag has no tact in the use of his or her tongue; knows not how to use words. |
#VI. The 5th SELFHOOD SERMON: |
This then is the 5th VERITABLE VALUATION of BEYONDISM: Pray, Believe, Interact, Work, Penetrate, Live and Actualise.--->This then is the 5th VERITABLE VALUATION of BEYONDISM: Pray, Believe, Interact, Work, Penetrate, Live and Actualise.--->This SELFHOOD SERMON entails viewing existence as a continuous healing process, as though you are newly reborn from mortal illness in every dawning day of LIFE. It implies appreciating the fact that NOW, is the most appropriate time for SELF-ASSERTION, not tomorrow, not some more conventional season. It is NOW that your best work can be done, not some future time or future day. It is NOW that you strategically fit yourself for the greater enterprises of next time. This SELFHOOD SERMON means developing the conviction that NOW is the seed of time. NOW are the working hours and next time comes the harvest and playtime, believing like Albert Einstein: “I never think of the future. It comes soon enough”. |
#5.1. PRAY #5.2. BELIEVE Verily, verily, your guiding generalisations and ‘Basic Beliefs’; #5.3. INTERACT #5.4. WORK #5.5. PENETRATE #5.6. LIVE #5.7. ACTUALISE Verily, verily, you are at the citadel of ‘Holistic Humanness’; |
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THERAPEAUTIC TRANSACTION #5: |
“You have to keep your vision clear, ‘cause only a coward lives in fear.” - American rapper and entrepreneur Nas (b. 1973). Here are SEVEN ways on how to TRULY TRANSIT to the next level of LIFE:--->“You have to keep your vision clear, ‘cause only a coward lives in fear.” - American rapper and entrepreneur Nas (b. 1973). Here are SEVEN ways on how to TRULY TRANSIT to the next level of LIFE:--->EXPOSING AND TRAMPLING DOWN COGNITIVE BIASES: As human beings, there is no way we can be supremely perfect and superbly clear in our decisions and conclusions. In order to process information more efficiently, we need to be aware of those mistakes and errors, we are prone to make in our endeavour at having accurate understanding of the issues we are exposed to, and the immediate world in which we live. |
i. The human brain is capable of 1016 processes per second, which makes it far more powerful than any computer currently in existence. This does not mean our brains do not have major limitations. The lowly calculator can do math thousands of times better than we can, and our memories are often less than useless — plus, we are subject to cognitive biases, those annoying glitches in our thinking that cause us to make questionable decisions and reach erroneous conclusions. ii. Radically important is to distinguish between cognitive biases and fallacies of relevance. A fallacy of relevance is an error in logical argumentation. A cognitive bias, on the other hand, is a genuine deficiency or limitation in our thinking; it describes the inherent thinking errors that humans make in processing information. These thinking errors prevent one from accurately understanding reality, even when confronted with all the needed data and evidence to form an accurate view. iii. Apparently, psychologists believe our cognitive biases help us process information more efficiently, especially in dangerous situations. Still, they lead us to make grave mistakes. We may be prone to such errors in judgment, but at least we can be aware of them. In your social interactions, you spend a great deal of time and effort trying to understand why people do or fail to do certain things. When you assign causes to behaviour, these references are referred to as ‘Attributions’. To have solid attributions, you need to rely on three basic considerations: Consistency, Distinctiveness and Consensus. In ‘Consistency’, you need to establish whether the change in behaviour occurs regularly when suspected causal event is present. In ‘Distinctiveness’ you need to establish if the change in behaviour occurs uniquely in the presence of the suspected causal event. You establish ‘Consensus’ by examining whether other people show similar reactions when they are exposed to the same causal event. iv. Now, have you ever attributed success to your own character and failure to external factors? This is the Self-Serving Bias. When you over-emphasise personality-based explanations for behaviours observed in others, while under-emphasising the role and power of situational influences on the same behaviour, then you have drifted to Fundamental Attribution Bias. The tendency to engage in behaviours that elicit results which will (consciously or subconsciously) confirm your beliefs is called Self-Fulfilling Prophecy. If you find yourself referencing only those perspective that fuel your pre-existing views, then you are using the Confirmation Bias. v. Sometimes you overestimate the values of your immediate group, at the expense of others. This is the In-group Bias. When you tend to put a tremendous amount of weight on previous events, believing that they will somehow influence future outcomes, then you have drifted to Gambler’s Fallacy. If you happen to feel better after making crappy decisions or making a costly purchase, then you are using Post-Purchase Rationalisation. Your inability to properly grasp a proper sense of peril and risk — which often leads you to overstate the risks of relatively harmless activities, while forcing you to overrate more dangerous ones, is called Neglecting Probability. vi. In most instances, the effect of suddenly noticing things you did not notice that much before — but you wrongly assume that the frequency has increased, is Observational Selection Bias. We humans tend to be apprehensive of change, which often leads us to make choices that guarantee that things remain the same, or change as little as possible. This is Status-Quo Bias. If you tend to perceive or pay more attention or give more credibility to bad news, then you are a victim of Negativity Bias. Though we are often unconscious of it, we love to go with the flow of the crowd and follow majority opinions. This is the Bandwagon Effect. vii. Thoughtfully, when you assume that most people think just like you - without any justification – then you are using the Projection Bias. Do you have a really hard time imagining yourself in the future and altering your behaviour and expectations accordingly? Would you rather experience pleasure in the current moment, while leaving the pain for later? Then you have drifted towards The Current Moment Bias. If you have the tendency of comparing and contrasting only a limited set of items, then you are a victim of Anchoring Effect. If you easily forget information that can be found readily online on the internet, then you are the victim of Google Effect. |
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