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![]() 2A/3P which is the brand name for this SELF-ACTUALIZATION Model simply means “African Assertiveness / Provoking Positive Perceptions”. African Assertiveness implies believing that you have ‘answers’ to the problems besetting you, and assuming total responsibility for the sacrifice required in order to arrive to the solution. This is a purely individual enterprise which can only be achieved only if you Provoke Positive Perceptions. |
![]() “Let me assert my firm belief” so proclaimed president Franklin Delano Roosevelt (1882 - 1945), the 32nd president of the United States (1933 - 1945), in his inaugural speech (1933) “that, the only thing we have to fear is fear itself – that nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyses needed EFFORTS to CONVERT RETREAT into ADVANCE.” (Emphasis mine.) BEYONDISM arouses you on how to amass the PERSONAL PREROGATIVE of boldly upgrading your i. EFFORTS to ii.CONVERT iii. RETREAT into iv.ADVANCE, thus v. TURNING vi.FAILURE to vii. SUCCESS.“Let me assert my firm belief” so proclaimed president Franklin Delano Roosevelt (1882 - 1945), the 32nd president of the United States (1933 - 1945), in his inaugural speech (1933) “that, the only thing we have to fear is fear itself – that nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyses needed EFFORTS to CONVERT RETREAT into ADVANCE.” (Emphasis mine.) BEYONDISM arouses you on how to amass the PERSONAL PREROGATIVE of boldly upgrading your i. EFFORTS to ii.CONVERT iii. RETREAT into iv.ADVANCE, thus v. TURNING vi.FAILURE to vii. SUCCESS.
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THOROUGHLY TRANSCENDING your ‘Temporary Turmoil’ MUST be your third major ‘Mortal Mission’. This is gorgeously grounded on your distinguished ‘Divine Duty’, to Yearn YES-saying MOTIVATIONS. As an ennobling encouragement to you ......., to ‘dig deep into the wells of your individuality, and to unleash your immense creative abilities’, BEYONDISM reflectively seeks to “PARAPHRASE” your response to the PROMPTINGS (not really questions) No.11, 1.v, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 & 21 consecutively.The THERAPEAUTIC TARGET here is: To help you to be fully aware and participate in your inner and personal world; to enter the room of your unique skills, and dine at the table of greatness. ---> ![]() |
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Your TEMPORARY TURMOIL should illumine you about LIFE THERAPEAUTIC TREASURE #3 “The beauty of life is to make it last for the better. Cuz nothing lasts forever.” |
1. Various conceptions abide, but none can define LIFE:---> LIFE is not a crude raw material to be ennobled or massaged by our touch. LIFE defies any idea of a single fundamental explanation or clear analysis. LIFE is infinitely BEYOND our obtuse theories, concepts and formulas about it. LIFE turns against and really rebuffs all conceptualisations and abstractions. LIFE is extensive, intensive, larger, surer, profounder than our syllogisms. LIFE is fluent, changeful, and surprises all ideologies, doctrines and philosophies. LIFE in its very essential implicit and explicit nature, is a delicious ambiguity. |
2. Existentially, the entreatment of LIFE is subtle:---> LIFE has no discernibly definite and thoroughly clear beginning, middle or end. LIFE’s each and every moment is integrated with the whole of your existence. LIFE is a seamless and inseparable succession of various spontaneous moments. LIFE is a solitary cell where everything in your personal experience is reflected. LIFE is froth and bubble where our essence stands out like the cinders of Lebanon. LIFE is essentially a principle of perpetual self-renewal as well as self-advancement. LIFE is constantly remaking and transfiguring itself, without the individual effort. |
3. Resolving to face LIFE resolutely, is blessedness:---> LIFE is basically WHAT IT IS; to be observed and to be aware of in all its actuality. Look unto LIFE without giving it any slant, without giving it an iota of interpretation. It needs an extraordinarily astute mind to be aware and be conscious of WHAT IS. It needs an extraordinarily pliable heart to follow and be committed to WHAT IS. WHAT IS, is constantly moving and constantly undergoing a great transformation. If the mind is tethered to belief, and fixed to theories it ceases to pursue WHAT IS. If the heart is dry and prejudiced, it ceases to follow the swift movement of WHAT IS. |
4. Spontaneity in all aspects of LIFE, is Godliness:---> Sometimes you have to shake yourself up, break free from the hold of the past. This can take the form of reversing your course, doing the opposite of the normal. Put yourself in some unusual circumstance, or situation of literally starting over. In those situations the mind has to deal with a new reality, and it snaps to LIFE. The change may be alarming, but it is also refreshing – even radically exhilarating. Attack problems from new angles, adapting to the landscape and what is given. Stay in constant motion; exploit the chaos of the world instead of succumbing to it. |
5. In as much as relationships should not be a burden:---> Relationships with your peers often develop a certain tiresome predictability. You do what you usually do, and other people respond the way they usually do. If you reverse the course, act in a novel manner, you alter the entire dynamic. Do this every so often to break up the relationship’s stale and expired patterns. In this way you will be opening up new possibilities, and LIFE will be more enriching. Apply no tactic rigidly; do not let your mind settle in static positions and formulas. Do not defend any particular idea or theory, or repeat the same lifeless maneuvers. |
6. On revelling at the bossom of LIFE:---> LIFE is an endlessly decisive and creative experience, towards self-actualisation. LIFE is getting what you want at times and enjoying it maximally most of times. LIFE entails boldly meeting and creatively overcoming obstacles and rebuffs. LIFE entails worshipping in the temple of liberty, at the altar of illumination. LIFE entails fighting darkness by lighting a virtual flame in all our wakefulness. LIFE is a continual struggle at attaining our personal objectives, goals and aims. LIFE entails being purposive and never tiptoeing unconsciously upon the earth. |
7. Natively capturing what is unfleeting:---> LIFE implies absolute acceptance of our individual responsibility and choices. LIFE entails confidently moving forward in the face of all overwhelming odds. LIFE is assuming our essential freedom by breaking all the chains of certitudes. LIFE is always appreciating and looking at the worst as well as best case scenario. LIFE is really assessing how our present actions will impact on our future thrive. LIFE is a stream with no beginning, which ultimately empties into cosmic ocean. LIFE’s bodily vehicle eventually ages, disintegrates and faces an inevitable DEATH. |
Here now flows (hover below) the BEYONDISM distilled definition of:--->
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R#15. On giving the excuse: “I lacked the ENTHUSIASM to complete that project”. O thee TAO, behold, Critically CULTIVATE your sincere strive to ELECTRIFY ENTHUSIASM.--->
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R#16. On tending to say: “If only I had more time I would ACCOMPLISH that”. O thee BB, behold, Critically CULTIVATE your sincere strive to AFFIRM ACCOMPLISHING.--->
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R#17. On swearing: “I will never do it”? And find yourself REPEATING the same acts. O thee TAO, behold, Intimately IRRIGATE your hallowed hope to RESIST REPETITIONS.--->
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R#18. On tending to blame others for your actions, to ESCAPE feeling guilty. O thee BB, behold, Proactively PROPAGATE your awakened aspiration to ESCHEW ESCAPING.--->
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R#19. On saying, in the event of being overtaken by TIME: “I intended to do it”. O thee TAO, behold, Natively NURTURE your wondrous wish to TAP TIME.--->
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R#20. On having the habit of saying: “I was UNABLE to accomplish the task”. O thee BB, behold, Reverentially REAP your deep desire to INDICT INABILITY.--->
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R#21. On finding it difficult to APOLOGISE, in the event of making a mistake. O thee TAO, behold, Reverentially REAP your deep desire to APOLOGISE AMIABLY.--->
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THERAPEAUTIC TEACHING #3: |
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#I. The 3rd AFRICAN AFFIRMATION:
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#II. The 3rd SACRED STANDING:
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| #III. The 3rd ASSERTIVENESS ARITHMETIC: |
You have a _______ preference of SOLUTIONS over DESPERATION (____%). N.B. To get your REAL RATING, you MUST respond to SELFHOOD RATING in the BEYONDIST SELFHOOD CODE. SO WHAT? Here is your TIMELY THERAPY.--->You have a _______ preference of SOLUTIONS over DESPERATION (____%). N.B. To get your REAL RATING, you MUST respond to SELFHOOD RATING in the BEYONDIST SELFHOOD CODE. SO WHAT? Here is your TIMELY THERAPY.--->GRACE + STRATEGY = SOLUTIONS GRACE is a measure of staying calm under pressure. It is that fixed state of mind, which seemingly carries you effortlessly through problems, obstacles and difficult negotiations in LIFE. It is that quality when LIFE is booming and things are flowing effortlessly, you show no EGO. STRATEGY is a measure of how you get to those higher aims in your LIFE, under the umbrella of uncertainty. Intelligent strategies must be attuned to patterns of behaviour, and known ways to get to what you want. Desperation kills STRATEGY, and eliminates solutions. When you approach uncertainty with GRACE and an awareness of what actions need to be applied to gain solid ground, SOLUTIONS and success are your result. |
TOP UP your SOLUTION-ORIENTATION. Your Specific Score in regard to your Valiant Voyage in the SELFHOOD-SEARCH SEA, towards the Holy Harbour of your Active SELFHOOD stands at ____ points out of 49 points. HASTEN your ANSWER-SEEKING. This parameter entails acceptance of yourself in spite of weaknesses and deficiencies. A high score means that you see yourself and human nature in a positive light; a low score is being essentially negative. EXISTENTIALLY, this is the essential extent to which you will be aware of your thoughts, impulses, feelings and motivations. READILY, it is the meritorious measure of how you will be able to operate as a free choice agent, who does not feel compelled by others or by some alien aspects of yourself. APPARENTLY, though behaviour is largely determined by genetic make-up, past experiences and social forces, this is the diligent degree you will subjectively feel free to be aware of your needs and to respond accordingly. PRUDENTLY, when you will have passionately travelled this road you will be able to appreciate WHO YOU ARE. In this world everything is in a state of flux and to seize opportunities as they arise is an essential tool to achieve success. YOUR categorical compass to Locate your BEARING here is ‘Moving forward traversing all Scrupples’. Let the SELF emerge. Try to shut out the external clues as to what you should think, feel, say, and so on, and let your experience enable you to say what you truly feel. |
Successful Studentship #3: Steer clear of outdated and old information, and always seek to do your research well. The underlying 3rd Perceptive Principle is based on the analogy of an Eagle: |
#IV. The 3rd POTENT POWER: |
i. MONK MODE #3---> These “junk activities” are distractive or masturbatory; they do not benefit you. |
ii. WITTY WARFARE #5---> Engaging in school rebellion is an overcompensation of feeling of unworthiness. |
iii. WITTY WARFARE #6---> Envy can trigger us to feel who we are and what we have is in some way lacking. |
iv. ADORABLE ANTIDOTE #5---> Having a bad conscience, is basically a torture which is the hell of a living soul. |
v. ADORABLE ANTIDOTE #6---> The vocation to be human implies the acknowledgement of others vocational claims. |
vi. STOUT SPIRIT #5---> An individual without self-MASTERY is like a house that has been broken into. |
vii. STOUT SPIRIT #6---> It is unfortunate that, people for the most part tend to be negative. |
| #V. The 3rd SURVIVAL SKILLS: |
i. POLISHED PERSUASION #5---> The mode of PERSUASION is to pamper people’s desire to be great. |
ii. POLISHED PERSUASION #6---> As a persuader you should develop a kind of a warrior’s outlook on LIFE. |
iii. AMICABLE APPROACH #7---> Strive to make your partner to transfer his or her deep repressed feelings to you. |
iv. AMICABLE APPROACH #8---> Take not your partner’s words at face value; one will often sugarcoat childhood events. |
v. AMICABLE APPROACH #9---> Listen closely, learn to analyse emotional responses and see what lies behind them. |
vi. INDOCTRINATION INNOCULATION #3---> Those who attempt to brainwash others tend to prey upon the weak and vulnerable. |
vii. TOXIC TRAIT #3---> Moralisers are rigid, follow fixed ideas, and they try to make you bend to their standards. |
#VI. The 3rd SELFHOOD SERMON: |
This then is the 3rd VERITABLE VALUATION of BEYONDISM: Pray, Believe, Interact, Work, Penetrate, Live and Actualize.--->This then is the 3rd VERITABLE VALUATION of BEYONDISM: Pray, Believe, Interact, Work, Penetrate, Live and Actualize.--->You must develop your own path, regardless of how borrowed it may be and make a commitment to stand by it for LIFE. To be an individual, who is determined to live a fully functional LIFE, you have to develop the capacity and ability to believe in LIFE without reservations. If you have your eyes set on ACTIVATING your SELFHOOD, you have to conceive that each day that has dawned as your last (thereby utilising it to the maximum), and that the present hour is the most lovely and enriching. |
#3.1. PRAY #3.2. BELIEVE Verily, verily, your guiding generalisations and ‘Basic Beliefs’; #3.3. INTERACT #3.4. WORK #3.5. PENETRATE #3.6. LIVE #3.7. ACTUALISE Verily, verily, you are at the citadel of ‘Holistic Humanness’; |
| #VII. The 3rd ESTEEMED EXPLORATION: |
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THERAPEAUTIC TRANSACTION #3: |
“You may say I’m a dreamer. But I’m not the only one.” - English singer and songwriter John Lennon (1940 – 1980). Here are SEVEN ways on how to churn out a MEANINGFUL MESSAGE:--->“You may say I’m a dreamer. But I’m not the only one.” - English singer and songwriter John Lennon (1940 – 1980). Here are SEVEN ways on how to churn out a MEANINGFUL MESSAGE:--->GAINING SUITABLE GUIDANCE FROM YOUR DREAMS: Dreams, those wild, fantastic and definitely uncensored jumbles of images that bombard us in our sleep, could help you figure out your magic formula for solving problems. When you are dreaming, the bits and pieces that you overlook during the daytime, are put together. Your subconscious synthesises them, to make them more understandable to your brain. It could also mean that, you are looking for some sort of guidance in your LIFE, and your dreams then, provide you with some sort of reassurance. |
i. Most of your DREAMS are a ‘royal road’ to your unconsciousness. They reveal how you would like to cope with issues, besides expressing your unsatisfied wishes. We all dream at night. Maybe you will remember your dreams once you wake up, or maybe not. You actually have about 4 to 5 dreams per night. The one(s) you might remember are most often the ones you dream right before you wake up. DREAM is one simple word that encompasses a vast universe of experience, purpose and meaning. There are many reasons for which dreams which are recalled come to us. Any one dream can have layers upon layers of meaning and it may be weeks, months.... even years, before the full meaning of a dream is revealed. Dreams can be therapeutic, cathartic, predictive, cleansing, healing, inspiring, rebuilding and processing. BEYONDISM helps you to make sense of these multi-faceted, multi-purposed, multi-layered and multi-platinum gifts that you awaken with each morning. In fact, there are telltale signs within each dream to help you discern whether it is helping you process information, release negativity, embrace your shadow side, break through limitations, predict the future, receive inspiration from your higher self, or create a LIFE, well, of your dreams. DREAM tries to hammer unto you a very important message. If you just become aware of your deepest impulses, you may with conscious intent create your own personality and LIFEstyle that will achieve your highest goals. ii. Essentially, there are two elements in a dream: manifest content and latent content. The former is the dream as it is remembered the next morning, while the latter is the real meaning or motive underlying the manifest content. Feeling helpless or being utterly paralysed in a dream suggests a style of playing helpless in the face of pressing demands, imperative assignments and daunting tasks. Your ‘Dream’ is a clarion call to discard all ‘Denials’. Denial is basically overcompensation or an exaggerated effort to cover up a weakness and distorting or refusing to accept the real situation. To the extent there is a gulf between your real self and your excessively high LIFE goals, and you feel highly inadequate you may be suffering from ‘Inferiority Complex’, or you may be drifting towards this unfortunate edge. In this type of dream you were in or near a car or some other type of vehicle which is out of control or has other problems that seem insurmountable. For example, the brakes may have failed, you may have lost control of the steering, or be heading over a cliff or crashing. You can either be the driver or the passenger. This is a very common type of nightmare and it occurs in all people – not just those who can drive. This dream usually means that you are feeling powerless over something in your LIFE – or that you are heading for a crash (metaphorically speaking). iii. Substantially, in the faulty machinery dream you were trying to operate an electronic, or electrical or mechanical equipment which either fails to work, or fails to work in the way that you expect it to. The vast majority of these dreams involve a telephone – either trouble dialing, losing a connection, or dialing a wrong number. It can involve a lost Internet connection, or something manual like a jammed or broken machine. This dream often means that you feel you are losing touch with reality, or that a part of your body or mind is not functioning as it should. It can also occur when you are feeling anxious about making a connection with another person in real LIFE. Dreaming about being lost or trapped and trying to find the way out is very common and will usually occur when you are having conflict in deciding how to react in a situation in real LIFE. In the dream you were trying to find your way out of an area – such as a forest, city streets, a large building, or other maze-like structure. Another way this dream plays out involves you being trapped, buried alive, caught in a web, or unable to move for some other reason. This is often accompanied by a feeling of terror. This dream usually means that you are trapped in real LIFE – unable to make the right choice. iv. Situationally, in this type of dream you were rushing to catch a bus, train, plane, or other type of public transport – but you missed it – usually by a fraction of a second. Rather than feeling fear in this dream, you felt frustration. This dream can also occur in a different form, in which you arrived late for an important performance or sporting event that you were supposed to participate in, only to find that the event has already begun. This dream usually means that you feel that you have missed out on an important opportunity in your real LIFE. It will often occur when you are struggling over an important decision. The dream of being prevented from passing a test in different possible scenarios usually manifests itself in people who have been out of school for a long time. In the dream you were prevented from passing a test in a variety of different possible scenarios. In one scenario you found that you were unable to make it to the test on time, often through being unable to find the test room. In other versions you were unprepared (either through lack of study) or you were missing an equipment. This dream usually means that you are feeling tested in some way in your real LIFE. You may feel that you are unprepared for something or playing the wrong part in LIFE. v. Assuming you had the dream, whereby you (or a loved one) were ill, injured, or dying. It is a moderately common dream and, not surprisingly, occurs often at the onset of an illness. Aside from becoming ill, this dream can mean that you are emotionally hurt or are afraid of becoming hurt. The dream may also be warning you of an upcoming physical risk to yourself or a loved one. When it is someone else in the dream that dies, it can mean that you feel that part of yourself (that you see represented by that person) is dead. It may also mean that you wish the person would go away, or that you fear losing them. Dreaming of being chased, or running away from a dream monster, can be a truly horrifying experience. Most often the chaser is a monster or some person that is frightening, and occasionally it may be an animal. You may be surprised to know that this is the most commonly experienced nightmare theme. The meaning of these dreams is that someone, something (possibly something as obscure as an emotion) is making you feel threatened. One way to determine the root of the threat is to ask yourself who or what in your real LIFE most closely resembles the “creature” or circumstance in your dream. It is also worth noting that sometimes this dream is a replay of an actual event in your LIFE. Moreover as far as you are concerned, running from a dream monster may be an indicative of the desire to run away from current problems, pressing issues, or personal responsibilities. vi. Generally, teeth dreams are fairly common and they usually involve the discovery of extremely decayed or missing teeth in your own mouth. Sometimes you will dream that you open your mouth and your teeth begin to fall out. The fact that the majority of people today have reasonable teeth, It is not surprising that we feel so emotionally disturbed by these dreams. So, what does it mean when we dream about missing teeth? At the most basic level it means that we are afraid of being found unattractive. At a deeper level, it can signify a fear of embarrassment or a loss of power in real LIFE. In this type of dream you were in a state of undress, partial undress, or inappropriate dress (for example wearing pajamas to work). Occasionally you were the witness of another person who is naked while you were clothed. This was accompanied by feelings of embarrassment and shame, but occasionally with the feeling of pride or freedom. The meaning of this dream is that you are feeling exposed, awkward, or vulnerable, or you are afraid that you have revealed too much of yourself (such as a secret or a very personal feeling) in a real LIFE situation. An interesting fact about this type of dream is that it occurs much more frequently in people who are involved in a wedding ceremony in their real LIFE. vii. Eventually, we have all had falling dreams; falling through the air or sinking in water and frightened. It is such a common dream, in fact, that myths have arisen over them; the most common myth is, of course, that you will die if you hit the ground in the dream. In the falling dream you were usually falling through the air and frightened. You also may have been sinking in water (and in danger of drowning). Typically having this dream implies that you are feeling insecure or lacking in support in your waking LIFE. These dreams often occur when you are overwhelmed in LIFE and feel ready to give up. If you have this dream you should evaluate your current situation and try to locate the problem that is overwhelming you. Deal with it and this dream should go away. |
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